Sincorrigible(sub female)
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4 months ago •
Nov 15, 2024
Manifestos in blogs
Anyone else automatically suspicious of blogs that are basically generalised 'how i see a Ds relationship working'. The ones that seem to be a series of essays on various topics?
No? Just me. Carry on (middle aged grumpy women) |
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Bunnie
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4 months ago •
Nov 15, 2024
I have noticed a bit of a trend of self-appointed “educators” popping up lately.
Is this kind of along the lines of what you’re speaking of? |
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TwinkleEyes{n/a}
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4 months ago •
Nov 15, 2024
Reminds me of the long winded resume (some profiles) already filled in by the seeker (employer). AKA looking for a warm body to fill the space beside them. Rather than an actual human being.
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dollMaker(dom male)
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4 months ago •
Nov 15, 2024
Yes, I am suspicious regarding the writing being their own, often I suspect its been stolen so I have recently started doing plagiarism checks on such material. Though the value of such checks may be limited if the original material was published behind a wall and not a more open source that plagiarism search engines can find. I say that coming off a scandal on another site I was made aware of, where a popular educator was discovered stealing others work and putting it out as their own.
Thirst traps are what they are, though poorly written, bad advice, wanabe, fantasist, one twue way nonsense that comes off as a charter for abuse, worded in just the right way to appeal to ignorant newbies is a deeply disturbing thing, particularly as newbies won’t have the knowledge, experience to spot the red flags, danger contained within such thirst traps. I guess all anyone can do is raise a hand, say scuse me, and giving benefit of the doubt, comment on such writing, blogs, offer a challenge, and see what occurs, if the writer blocks and or deletes the respectful comments then that says everything one needs to know regarding the poster and their motives. Often domly, mc dom, and its often those types, though it can be subby mc sub don’t like having their dangerous fantasy traps challenged or exposed so react with trying to silence, sweep under the carpet such concerns, as it might highlight issues that some might miss and get drawn in to unhealthy involvements - basically they don’t want their trap exposed, for what it is. |
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Sweet Minx(sub female)
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4 months ago •
Nov 15, 2024
Mmmhmmm.
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Sincorrigible(sub female)
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4 months ago •
Nov 15, 2024
Bunnie wrote: I have noticed a bit of a trend of self-appointed “educators” popping up lately.
Is this kind of along the lines of what you’re speaking of? Yes, sort of. They just seem.. Generic. And like hooks saying all the right words. One blog, I get. You might be sharing s something you feel really passionate about. But when it's a sort of.... 'curated' series, it reeks to me of trying to hook someone in. It's... Disingenuous. Deliberate and calculating. I made a comment a little while back on one of these blogs, and the blogger promptly deleted my comment (I was questioning his take on consent) . That speaks volumes to me. Blogs are your private space to post what the fuck you want. But I'm suspicious of motive in these 'manifestos'. |
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Sincorrigible(sub female)
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4 months ago •
Nov 15, 2024
dollMaker wrote: Yes, I am suspicious regarding the writing being their own, often I suspect its been stolen so I have recently started doing plagiarism checks on such material. Though the value of such checks may be limited if the original material was published behind a wall and not a more open source that plagiarism search engines can find. I say that coming off a scandal on another site I was made aware of, where a popular educator was discovered stealing others work and putting it out as their own.
Thirst traps are what they are, though poorly written, bad advice, wanabe, fantasist, one twue way nonsense that comes off as a charter for abuse, worded in just the right way to appeal to ignorant newbies is a deeply disturbing thing, particularly as newbies won’t have the knowledge, experience to spot the red flags, danger contained within such thirst traps. I guess all anyone can do is raise a hand, say scuse me, and giving benefit of the doubt, comment on such writing, blogs, offer a challenge, and see what occurs, if the writer blocks and or deletes the respectful comments then that says everything one needs to know regarding the poster and their motives. Often domly, mc dom, and its often those types, though it can be subby mc sub don’t like having their dangerous fantasy traps challenged or exposed so react with trying to silence, sweep under the carpet such concerns, as it might highlight issues that some might miss and get drawn in to unhealthy involvements - basically they don’t want their trap exposed, for what it is. Thirst trap. I haven't heard that term. It's perfect. I haven't searched for plagiarism. I just find them odd. And yes, I was deleted on one recently. Their prerogative of course. But it makes you wonder... |
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Sincorrigible(sub female)
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4 months ago •
Nov 15, 2024
Sorry Bunnie... I stuffed up that reply.... ??
Hmmm... No.. Just my screen displaying oddly. Ignore. X |
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TopekaDom(dom male)
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4 months ago •
Nov 15, 2024
But don't you people realize what I have to say is important?!?!
I have solved all the problems for the lifestyle and if you all just followed my lead, things would be much better! |
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intenseoldman(dom male)
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4 months ago •
Nov 15, 2024
Damn, and here I wonder if some stuff isn't too well written, too well organized, and too appealing. I mean, I'd recommend the words... but, yeah, the chance they came from from some Joe Schmo like anyone here? Not likely.
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