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3 weeks ago •
Nov 30, 2024
How to deal with Loneliness as a Submissive
Been feeling very lonely lately, and wanted to reach out and see what other submissives do and some ways to deal with loneliness, and redirecting your thoughts in a positive way.
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LoveandDevotion(sub female){Looking}
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3 weeks ago •
Nov 30, 2024
I'd like to hear what others say as well. I've been struggling with this too. I just keep trying to meet someone, that's all I know how to do, but yeah, it gets me down.
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Softnote(masochist female)
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3 weeks ago •
Nov 30, 2024
Loneliness I feel to me its the other way around become the company you reap. ✨
Even if you are alone ancestors are always there listening to you. Animals outside the angels at your side what ever you feel close but arch angels or thing for one you can call on if you feel alone. Carry something close to you that reminds you of that person and thing. I love being alone at times. Sometimes you need to date yourself and be the partner for self focus on the beautiful things in life better as it goes. I didn't look but not had a problem. I'm just selective about who allows my energy in life. That kind of thing is rare. The best kind things happen unexpectedly. Create happiness to make happiness up to you how you choose to be how you want to be. Being sexy for self with value only you get a say in your life. Whoever wants to be in your life should be happy to even be part of it. Be the attraction but if they want to be part they should come with showing as themself as leading hand, not just say it, don't have to question it. Even during the holidays you must enchant your holiday and water and bloom. Volunteer , go to local church, don't have to have belief but light where you take it you can listen some things you may agree with some not but you have good heart still have love and light, make some cookies , donate , find some local events and meetups, find some new people, even online reality game mmo,Buy a book or magazine or check one out at library. Plenty of holiday things to do go out and carol or go ice sledding make snow fort. Make a routine whatever that is you want to do. I just don't chase life, allow life to flow as you center yourself with it. Get the decoration out for the holiday and celebrate how you want to put some cards up even if they are old or new. Make your own Write lovely cards to self put around the house , listen to lovely holidays, something that is close to your heart. Sing to yourself and dance around as you decorate your holiday, put some bright lights up , Make a list of show's some romance period shows. Be the occasion, have your best out, dress up daily , keep your health the way you want to sculpt it , take care of your skin and body , healthy meal , nice walk or even biking. Call up some friends or family or just talk to your people who live next door. Just try to make some new friends but take your time till trust is built, even that is companionship, no touching just enjoy each other's company sometimes may turn into more. Curl your hair , have night time sayings , write down 6 things like to change , wake up at sunrise, do some tai chi , Do some beauty of your nails. Try a game on the side, go out, buy yourself something lavish, be the seduction of your life, let people look, let them think. Try a class online , make your end of the year into a new year for yourself. I been biking every day I got myself Pilates board on temu good deal and got color light massager. Other things : Make something hand made , Paint a picture , Invite people next door for some tea , make a to do list 25 days til the holiday. Get some fortune cookies open one daily make your spirit rise. Egg nog seems to all way's hit the spot little glass really changes the mode. Watch free movies on the tube of the holiday's or some holiday countdown music. A moment for joy , Your getting better all the time. Life has it's challenges , but whatever difficultly comes your way and bring with its change to discover strength you didn't realize you had , to spark your creativity , to developed new confidence - and become even more capable were you were before. Make a holiday advent put some sweets and a note of the 25 days of you merry life. Admire yourself say lovely things to yourself wake with cup of coffee and tea make the day count. You Deserve good things. Supersize your joy! There is a instant. Calorie-free way to boost happiness : Positive thinking! Look the best in yourself , in others and in each day. Ir's there! Drink it beauty. Ir's all around you! Count your great qualities and your blessings there are many. Life is good. Indulge! 7 day's of inspiration. Take one day and feel great all week. Day 1 You deserve recognition and admiration. Day 2 Sprinkle a little magic into your day and someone else's Smile. Day 3 A dream is best the best destination there is. Day 4 Take a chance on yourself. Your Worth it! Day 5 You mean so much to so many. Day 6 The biggest part of achieving is believing! Day 7 The world is filled with great people. People like you! |
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