Sub Space and Sub Drop

Sub Space and Sub Drop

Aradia Nightshade​(kinky female) • Jan 26, 2025

I know, in theory, what sub space and sub drop are. Neither of these are something I'm willing to experience first hand. I know that saying "never" tempts the Fates to mess with us - but practically speaking, so many unlikely things would need to happen, that it is highly unlikely (speaking only for myself).

What moves a submissive into sub space will vary wildly. But how does it feel? I am curious about it, and I'm asking out of personal curiousity. However, I'm also asking because there is a fictional sub I'm writing about and I'd like to incorporate real aspects of sub space. If you wish to say what leads you to sub space, that is useful, but I recognize it's private. Please share whatever you wish about sub space - but note that I'm seeking lived experiences. I don't need definitions or theoretical information.

Sub drop is a new term for me. I am less familiar with this. I understand that dominants can get a drop too, and you are welcome to share what this feels like for you. So again, looking for lived experiences, not anything theoretical. I recognize that this too, is private information.

I am not asking anyone to share information they are not comfortable sharing. If I don't learn how these things feel, I can just use my imagination. Many readers wouldn't recognize any errors in this regard. But for those who do have some knowledge, I don't want to knock them out of that wonderful space we get in as readers that enable us to be fully immersed in a story.

Does sub drop follow sub space sometimes? All the time?

I would appreciate any lived experiences people want to share. Again, I do not expect anyone to share something they aren't comfortable sharing. Yes, I'm talking to you, people pleasers.

Villanelle​(staff) • Jan 26, 2025

We have a great article on this in our Magazine that you might find interesting: https://thecage.co/magazine,85.html

Aradia Nightshade​(kinky female) • Jan 26, 2025

Thank you. I'll check it out.

K y i v​{Walking} • Jan 26, 2025

Sometimes.

fluffypoppet​(sub female)​{Protected} • Jan 26, 2025

For me...
- Sub space feels like the floaty feeling after you cum... but it can last longer.
- sub drop feels like depression. I get dark thoughts and that's a huge tell for me, because I don't usually struggle with depression.

Aradia Nightshade​(kinky female) • Jan 26, 2025

Thank you for sharing.