Getting kinky

Getting kinky

Little Vixie​(sub female)​{Mgh30} • Jan 28, 2025

What is a kink that you thought you had until you tried it and realized it just wasn't for you.

This is not the space to talk crap on other kinks (don't yuck on others yums). More of something fun to think about.

Mine is DDLG. I thought i was looking to have a daddy dom, but now that I am more into the life, I prefer the sado- maso aspects more.

SoftSoul​(masochist female) • Jan 28, 2025

You try things and see what you like down the road it may change and you may have more roles as you go along your journey.
Exploring, Learning, Evolving, and becoming the deeper depth of your spiritual connection with the dynamic. It's messy it's beautiful what you choose is you the person that shares with you yin and yang bond.

I was a slave at first in my early 20 then learned to understand you have to have feelings and communicate with the person I was with knew that I needed to focus on the mental of the mind and keep conversation. That even if you slave you need to have sub also cause well your human speak up.

That I could not wear heels all the time was a house rule then got changed cause feet need comfort as well.

Can't be chained up for 8 hours naked Well people can get cold and you need to be able to monitor them in case of a fire the sub needs a key.
I did have a blanket tho. You live and you learn. Chained up would be best for a limited time when the person is home make a long chain or allow them to wear a device that not heavy to move around. Time and place for all things.

I did not know what babygirl's term was but I acted like it I would crawl carry a blanket around and say I am hungry tugging on Dom's pant leg I was in my 20s but ya comes a time when you bloom in life be a little more independent.

That naked was not a very day thing need some kind of clothes for all kinds of weather even sheer to soft things.

That two hold the key so the submissive does has a say as well wit the dom its a give and take both ways.

I got into the 1950s well my first ex was into I was in to vintage the Stepford thing then the whole slave sub came along then the rest of many roles. I don't really use it as a title but bottom is what I have used.

Yes I did like my First Dom wanted me to read all the manner books in the beginning but grew to love it well he wanted be my best in pubic around the Master and family and dining out.

Pain in great desire but I was not allway's but down the road baby steps but I use to inflect pain on to self but I practice I only get red to bruise nothing to make it bleed not all pain is the same. Even if someone Is a Maso or Sado everyone has different
pain levels. I will never put hook in my back to my bones I have seen it but not my thing but people know how to I guess good at but the last time I seen it. Just let people be you be you.

MountaintopMaster • Jan 28, 2025

Hmm... I stabbed a lot of needles through my own body, in a past life. It was exciting, but, ehh. I realized that my form of masochism needs a very tangible, lasting payoff that can be shared and appreciated very universally. (I like to endure the misery of wilderness backpacking, with the payoff being an epic landscape photo that I can share with the world. It's not kinky, but I do consider myself a bit of a masochist in terms of how much misery I can gladly endure, but again, there's gotta be a payoff!)

JaredMayer​(dom male) • Jan 30, 2025

Part of my sadistic mind really enjoys the idea that I could just use someone and discard them like trash when I was done. I had a fwb situation where I had the opportunity to treat her like that (with her consent, of course), but I discovered I much prefer cuddling and affection in the afterglow. I also thought I'd like dirty anal, but when that eventually happened it was way too gross in reality.

A good lesson that what excites us in fantasy sometimes has nothing to do with reality.

rsparks​(sub female) • Jan 30, 2025

Choking..tried it, not into it..but hey, I tried.

Cello Trance​{for You} • Jan 30, 2025

I guess I’ve never experienced a kink that I thought I had and tried it and found out that I didn’t like it. I’ve always just pursued the things that I’ve enjoyed. It started out with bondage and loving the feeling of control… But then about 30 years ago, when I discovered my gift of hypnosis, that was a real life changer for me… And it is a gift, very similar to my gift of music. It’s a very similar creative process, and it takes me to a very similar place. In other words, I usually go into a trance state when I play music… As for hypnosis, I use that gift with others that have similar kinks to mine.

I have had people that have asked me to do things to them in trance that are far outside of what I feel comfortable with so I just don’t do it. For instance, years ago I had a submissive who was into pet play and wanted me to trance her to become a dog… Which is fine. I’ve done that before And enjoyed it… But she wanted me to abuse her as a dog and that is something I just would not be able to do.

I also only do trance within a committed one on one relationship

TopekaDom​(dom male) • Jan 30, 2025

Micro Managing!

Gawd that is boring! The two times I worked with s types who were into it, I found (much later) out both were just lazy. They didn't want to have to make choices and put it off on me to make even simple decisions. Clothing choice, when to eat, what to eat, when to go to bed, when to get up, making plans for the day, and the like.

Control and guidance is one thing, but for fuck's sake be a grown up.

Bluebanana​(masochist female) • Jan 30, 2025

? good on them for getting away with it for so long TopekaDom!

TopekaDom​(dom male) • Jan 31, 2025

Oh!

And Branding

Being intendance of a branding ceremony once, many years ago, and remembering what the smell was like.

So no.

Cello Trance​{for You} • Jan 31, 2025

So I’m assuming that leaves scat out for you as well
Or is it skeet? I could never remember.