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LoveandDevotion​(sub female)​{Taken}Verified Account
3 months ago • Oct 11, 2025
LoveandDevotion​(sub female)​{Taken}Verified Account • Oct 11, 2025
I don't have a humiliation kink and wasn't planning on replying except reading this:

Master Darkblood wrote:
As a Dom! I guess it connects back to objectification. Humiliating my sub and knowing it turns them on is a very sexy connection


Makes me think about when I was struggling to articulate my thoughts to a Dom once and he said "sounds like you like to be objectified, but not humiliated or degraded. Objectification is a separate kink" and it was a light bulb moment for me.
I like to be objectified, I want to be owned, but I want to be the cherished, treasured favorite possession of my Master, never degraded.
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Steellover​(sub male)
3 months ago • Oct 11, 2025
Steellover​(sub male) • Oct 11, 2025
I dunno. It's the power exchange aspect of it, I guess. Somehow making my partner seem more desireable or powerful. I get off on the small-penis humiliation fetish, and some of the verbal degredation, among other more extreme things. Hard to explain why, but maybe if it makes my partner sound more aggressive, dominant and powerful, it makes me desire her more, I dunno. It is undeniably a huge turn on for me though.
SubStanChill​(sub male)
3 months ago • Oct 11, 2025
SubStanChill​(sub male) • Oct 11, 2025
Pure Conjecture but my personal hypothesis is that it’s Pavlovian, stemming back to conditioning in teen years. Back then two things were true, I was the most insecure I had ever been, and my sex drive was the highest it had ever been. Fast forward to today, and I’m much more secure in my body after years experience… BUT my natural sex drive has declined both from age and a lot of experience.

At the risk of sounding arrogant, after a while of steady access to sex, it kinda got boring. The year I had the most hook ups was the year I discovered this kink. Now, when I’m humiliated, particularly with things that I was the most insecure about as a teen, it all floods back.

To put it short, Humiliation arouses me, because back when I was most easily humiliated a was basically always aroused.
House Talion​(dom male)
3 months ago • Oct 14, 2025
House Talion​(dom male) • Oct 14, 2025
As an Auralist i like to hear my partner verbalize their submission. Ask for permission to cum, beg to feel my cum inside you, kneel at my feet and nibble on my zipper.
gauguin​(sub male)
3 months ago • Oct 18, 2025
gauguin​(sub male) • Oct 18, 2025
Humiliation is a huge turn on for me. Being humiliated makes me feel 'so bad, that it feels good'. However, I do not know why. Definitely nothing related to my childhood experiences or any vanilla life experiences at all.
Whoreish​(sub female)
2 months ago • Oct 24, 2025
Whoreish​(sub female) • Oct 24, 2025
It's really a way for me to really feel like my dom is in power ; them degrading me make me feel so little and I can feel myself letting go of all my "power" ?
Plus having someone play out my worse fears, but in my control feels really therapeautic.
FutLug​(dom male)
2 months ago • Oct 28, 2025
FutLug​(dom male) • Oct 28, 2025
@Whoreish @LoveandDevotion @angelaffliction
Women only – no Dom, no pics, no play.
You just wrote gold:

“cherished possession, never degraded”
“play out my worst fears, but in my control”
“feel so little and let go of all power”

Now go deeper.
What’s the ONE humiliation/TPE scene you’d only whisper to a diary at 3 a.m.?
The exact words. The silence after. The feeling when control finally snaps.
No filters. No audience.
I’ll read it like the last page of your uncensored book.
Drop it here.
intenseoldman​(dom male)
2 months ago • Nov 7, 2025
intenseoldman​(dom male) • Nov 7, 2025
Catharsis: for the degradee it's the release of repressed masochism. For the degrador it is the release of repressed sadism.