Lovingly Strict(dom female)
|
21 hours ago •
Feb 2, 2026
If you could change one thing about the lifestyle, what would it be?
If you could change one thing about the lifestyle, what would it be?
Don't think too much into it, or do. I don't really care but you must be fully honest when answering. |
|
|
Online now
Steellover(sub male)
|
19 hours ago •
Feb 3, 2026
Well, I can't change the ratio of female dominants to male submissives, and I suppose it would be selfish to think that way.
I can't change my local dating scene; it's a fairly conservative town and those of us here who are into sex at all, mostly lean strictly vanilla. A lot of people, due to their strict religious upbringing, think even recreational vanilla sex is taboo, and live their lives ridden with guilt and repression. Kink of any kind, of course, is beyond imagining to them. I can't change that. I would change myself, though, to drive those kinky desires from my brain, re-wire myself to be strictly vanilla. That's hard to do though. I've tried... Or, I would change it so that there would be some way, some subtle code, or method, by which like-minded kinky people could identify each other, so that rare connection we all crave could happen more easily. I mean, I can't just go walking around downtown wearing a big white t-shirt that says "This Naughty Boy Needs Spanking!" can I. |
|
|
MissBonnie(dom female){oz}
|
16 hours ago •
Feb 3, 2026
Steellover wrote: Well, I can't change the ratio of female dominants to male submissives, and I suppose it would be selfish to think that way.
I can't change my local dating scene; it's a fairly conservative town and those of us here who are into sex at all, mostly lean strictly vanilla. A lot of people, due to their strict religious upbringing, think even recreational vanilla sex is taboo, and live their lives ridden with guilt and repression. Kink of any kind, of course, is beyond imagining to them. I can't change that. I would change myself, though, to drive those kinky desires from my brain, re-wire myself to be strictly vanilla. That's hard to do though. I've tried... Or, I would change it so that there would be some way, some subtle code, or method, by which like-minded kinky people could identify each other, so that rare connection we all crave could happen more easily. I mean, I can't just go walking around downtown wearing a big white t-shirt that says "This Naughty Boy Needs Spanking!" can I. ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^what he said about Femdoms^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ There arent enough go around. I'd also like inside that same wish: that ALL THOSE self labeling themselves as Femdoms had legitimate and open. honest intentions. Steellover could you wear a trisk or small flogger on your key chain? They are subtle but those in the know, know! |
|
|
|
dollMaker(dom male)
|
15 hours ago •
Feb 3, 2026
That no human being could ever violate another's consent, or lie, a built-in, sort of kill switch that stops/prevents it.
|
|
|
| Miss Anima(dom female) |
3 hours ago •
Feb 3, 2026
MissBonnie wrote: Steellover wrote: Well, I can't change the ratio of female dominants to male submissives, and I suppose it would be selfish to think that way.
I can't change my local dating scene; it's a fairly conservative town and those of us here who are into sex at all, mostly lean strictly vanilla. A lot of people, due to their strict religious upbringing, think even recreational vanilla sex is taboo, and live their lives ridden with guilt and repression. Kink of any kind, of course, is beyond imagining to them. I can't change that. I would change myself, though, to drive those kinky desires from my brain, re-wire myself to be strictly vanilla. That's hard to do though. I've tried... Or, I would change it so that there would be some way, some subtle code, or method, by which like-minded kinky people could identify each other, so that rare connection we all crave could happen more easily. I mean, I can't just go walking around downtown wearing a big white t-shirt that says "This Naughty Boy Needs Spanking!" can I. ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^what he said about Femdoms^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ There arent enough go around. I'd also like inside that same wish: that ALL THOSE self labeling themselves as Femdoms had legitimate and open. honest intentions. Steellover could you wear a trisk or small flogger on your key chain? They are subtle but those in the know, know! Did you mean Findoms? |
|
|
| Miss Anima(dom female) |
3 hours ago •
Feb 3, 2026
I would change the lifestyle back to when you had to educate yourself, far too many people leech engery off others.
|
|
|
|
MissBonnie(dom female){oz}
|
2 hours ago •
Feb 3, 2026
Miss Anima wrote: MissBonnie wrote: Steellover wrote: Well, I can't change the ratio of female dominants to male submissives, and I suppose it would be selfish to think that way.
I can't change my local dating scene; it's a fairly conservative town and those of us here who are into sex at all, mostly lean strictly vanilla. A lot of people, due to their strict religious upbringing, think even recreational vanilla sex is taboo, and live their lives ridden with guilt and repression. Kink of any kind, of course, is beyond imagining to them. I can't change that. I would change myself, though, to drive those kinky desires from my brain, re-wire myself to be strictly vanilla. That's hard to do though. I've tried... Or, I would change it so that there would be some way, some subtle code, or method, by which like-minded kinky people could identify each other, so that rare connection we all crave could happen more easily. I mean, I can't just go walking around downtown wearing a big white t-shirt that says "This Naughty Boy Needs Spanking!" can I. ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^what he said about Femdoms^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ There arent enough go around. I'd also like inside that same wish: that ALL THOSE self labeling themselves as Femdoms had legitimate and open. honest intentions. Steellover could you wear a trisk or small flogger on your key chain? They are subtle but those in the know, know! Did you mean Findoms? In a way yes but I mean the ones that label themselves as Femdoms and are hidden and veiled Findoms/ProDom or sugar or cam/sex worker. If the label matches the contents GREAT. We do need Findoms too, we just don't need the underhanded ones with hidden intents. |
|
|
TopekaDom(dom male){Chaos }
|
1 hour ago •
Feb 3, 2026
I would wish for more free popcorn in the dungeons.
|
|
|