Matchmaker

Matchmaker

Heart of Persephone​(sub female)​{Yearning } • Feb 5, 2026

There are days when I think there should be a Professional Matchmaker for the D/s lifestyle. where you sit and meet with them and are able to describe everything and they would know the right questions to ask and then they would look into their black book to bring up potential D or s.
I know that would take away the hidden gems of opposites attract. where the random person who is the total opposite of what you like and they are the perfect one for you.
But I think it would help weed out and get the ball rolling.
What do you think, would a professional Matchmaker be beneficial in this lifestyle?

House Talion​(dom male) • Feb 5, 2026

It is possible, but the way this lifestyle works it'd be up to the subs to make first contact as most (99.97%) dom/mes are too much

pioneer man​(sub male) • Feb 5, 2026

It could help some people, but personally I'm not favorable to the idea if you are looking for a D/s relationship.

As a Femdom sub for years that has attended many events, both in person & online, I have never met anyone who admitted using a matchmaker. Of course some people do meet on dating sites.

My Dom and I met in our vanilla life and did not discuss a Femdom dynamic until after marriage. My suggestion has always been to just be yourself in your everyday activties and any social events you may attend. Most successful relationships start out casual. Too many people are in a hurry. Usually it's because they fell into the movie & porn trap instaed of real life.

There's an old saying: "If you push someone, they will always back off."