Collars

Howdy everyone!

Thanks in advance for reading and for any insights you can share.

I’m currently looking into eternity collars, and I was wondering if anyone here has thought about them or has firsthand experience?

Any and all information is welcome and deeply appreciated. Thanks so much!

If you looked into these collars and used them or decided not why or why not? If not did you go with a similar style or something different? If you went with something different what did you get?

~GA

Personally, my Dom doesn't have me wear a collar. We did look at them and there are some nice ones out there. From what I have heard, one of the popular ones is a simple metal collar the looks good in public, so it can be worn 24/7 without drawing attention in the vanilla world.

I think her reasoning is that for our generation (we're in our 70's & married 53 years), she felt a collar just didn't look good for the vanilla world.

Over the years in our Femdom marriage, she has picked out certain underwear and other items for me to wear discreetly in public. Her most recent idea has been to not allow me to have any type of underwear on in public. Total commando in public and total nudity is always required in private.

Back in my day, they were called "Forever" collars (which I think is better marketing)

I love the idea but I think they are simply ugly as shit. Spent some time trying to figure out the same kind of tech for better looking ones but never could get it to work.

The brand itself is alright but they’re way too pricey even if the intention is forever. I prefer a day collar that’s a simple chain. No one outside the dynamic had any inkling of what it represents for me personally. It’s a symbolic representation of a solid dynamic, my peace, safety and protection. It’s representative of many things and being able to play with it and wrap it around my hand during high anxiety gives me the same mental calming as being with Him so for me the solid band isn’t practical. On top of that people can and do have weight fluctuations so if you decide to get one I’d highly suggest getting one bigger than is actually needed. My medications cause massive weight fluctuations so it’s a real concern for me personally.