spoiledBrat97
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6 years ago •
Jul 25, 2018
HOW TO FIND THE RIGHT ONE ?
I am new to the BDSM community with very little experience and i just wanna know how do i go about finding the right one
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Fudbar(dom male){❤️❤️❤️}
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6 years ago •
Jul 25, 2018
Read, think, ask, repeat. You don't want to look for the 'right one', you want to look for thoughts, ideas and comments that resonate with you. The kind that make you say, "Stop reading my mind!", things that tweak and excite the new parts of you that you're exploring.
When you find one of those things, read that thread, click through onto that person's profile, see what else they've blogged and written. Follow up on book, website and blog suggestions, and learn more about the whole spectrum of BDSM, not just the parts that appeal to you. As you do that, questions and thoughts will come up. Reach out either publicly or privately to folks that see things in ways that make sense to you. Take that feedback, talk through things, and go back to reading and learning with that new knowledge. This is a brand new world for you. As you learn more about it, you'll figure out where you fit and where you don't want to go. You'll learn and hear about other people's mistakes and successes, and be much better equipped to go out there and find folks to make your own mistakes and success stories. Read, think, ask, repeat. |
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thedarkflamemaster(dom male)
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6 years ago •
Aug 8, 2018
The right one is the person that truly makes you feel alive. Every color, scent, touch feels 10 times more incredible than with any other guy or girl. Your heart will seen to warm when thinking or talking to him/her. You just can't seem to get them out if your head. Even at the weirdest times they pop up in your daily routine.
Also, they obviously turn you on like no other person can. They spark the imagination in you to new heights of pleasure and excitement. You can't seem to get off to any other person as well as you can with this guy/girl. It just feels empty when you do it to other people. With the right one, it just fills your whole body with a sense of home and peace. This is the one I want in my life and I wouldn't trade him or her for anyone else. People like that are extremely hard to come by. So when you meet that person, grab onto them and don't you dare let go. They will never come again. Best of luck finding your special someone. ^_^ DFM |
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