| Freechooseme(sub male) |
6 years ago •
Aug 4, 2018
Looking for a list of books
Hello All,
I'm currently new to BDSM. I'm looking for a list of books to read and learn more about BDSM. I believe that i'm more of a submissive man as i'm passive and I do back down when around more dominant people. Please do share if you know any good boys as i'm in it for the long haul. |
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Byrdie(switch female){rl only}
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6 years ago •
Aug 4, 2018
I curate the Resources page for Seattle's Women's Welcoming Committee, and we have a list of suggested reading there:
https://sites.google.com/site/thewwcseattle/resources/recommended-books I hope that this helps! |
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| Freechooseme(sub male) |
6 years ago •
Aug 5, 2018
Thank you so much. You have just made the nerd in me so happy. Which book do you recommend? I will also check them out and see which one I might buy first. Hopefully other women might share other books.
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Byrdie(switch female){rl only}
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6 years ago •
Aug 5, 2018
For a new submissive, I’d suggest starting with either “The Bottoming Book” or “Screw the Roses: Send me the Thorns.”
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DrWakko
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6 years ago •
Aug 5, 2018
If you check out my blog on page 2 I have a list of good Bdsm books.
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incubuswannabe
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6 years ago •
Aug 25, 2018
(First post, please be gentle...)
I'm utterly new to BDSM as practice too, but been studying it 'academically' as it were for some time, mostly from a psychoanalytic / clinical lens... So the following is biased (and may or may not be great for an "intro"), but at least should help contextualize BDSM theoretically I think: - Freud, "The economic problem of masochism" (1925). - Deleuze, Masochism: Coldness and Cruelty (1967). - Julie Reshe, "BDSM Therapy". Medium. March 9, 2017. https://medium.com/@juliereshe/bdsm-therapy-7a667cc9927c - Colin Wright, "Sadomasochism and the Body of Law: Lacan’s Reconceptualization of Perversion as père-version". Theory & Event, 16, no. 4 (2013). - Meg Barker, "Existential sex therapy". Sexual and Relationship Therapy 26, no. 1 (2011): 33-47. http://oro.open.ac.uk/28126/ [h/t Prof. Julie Reshe for the list] |
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rosethorn(sub female)
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6 years ago •
Aug 25, 2018
maybe some films to break the reading up ?
S and M judge Secretary |
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