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Debz​(sub female)​{Barnaby} • Aug 8, 2018

Hello


I am looking for some advice and tips from any experienced subs as I am new to this and would like some help

Thanks
Debz

Kara​(sub female)​{Dark Roast} • Aug 8, 2018

I'm here to help, but I don't quite know what advice to give. You can always leave a message in my inbox or Bond me with what exactly you want advice with.

Fudbar​(dom male)​{❤️❤️❤️} • Aug 8, 2018

I'm with Aria; not much to go on from your post, however...

Gleaning what I can from your profile and forum posts;

-You've been on the site for 4 days.

-You've already found a 'Dom'

-You admit you're very new and inexperienced

-You've been asked to or have already video chstted with said 'Dom', and have doubts about that.


If all that is correct, you need Vanilla Ice....

Stop. Collaborate and Listen.?

STOP playing with this 'Dom'. That's moving waay too fast. Text only, and it should be you asking them questions, not vice versa. You are not obligated to tell your life story to every guy that asks because you're a sub. You should DEFINITELY not be on cam yet if you have doubts and questions. You're a person first, then a sub. Don't be a doormat (unless that's your thing, but even then, slow your roll a bit and learn first).

COLLABORATE with other subs. Aria is a good one, smart and has a fully functional bullshit detector. Get to know her and others, and chat away as much as you can. What you think are stupid and embarrassing questions aren't; they've been there and understand. You're not alone. Use that.

LISTEN to the advice you're given. All of it. Think about it, then ask more questions. Repeat. 'Sub frenzy' is a real thing.. new folks get very excited and turned on by this brand new world. If you dive in head first without listening, you may smash yourself on the rocks. Look and listen before you leap.

Debz​(sub female)​{Barnaby} • Aug 8, 2018

I haven't video chatted with him it has been all text so far and I have asked plenty of questions but I am not playing with anyone and I will be talking to aria as long as she is happy to

Fudbar​(dom male)​{❤️❤️❤️} • Aug 8, 2018

All good to hear...and yes, Aria said as much in her reply. I'm sure she'll be glad to hear from you. In general, almost all the experienced subs on here are kind and helpful, especially to new folks who are polite. Don't be afraid to reach out.

Also new

LovelyJayd • Aug 22, 2018

Hi Aria,

Could I also message you with any questions I may have? I'm also new to this and dont really know what I want.

Re: Also new

Kara​(sub female)​{Dark Roast} • Aug 22, 2018

[quote="LovelyJayd"]

Of course.