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gprincesssub​(sub female)
Finally feeling comfortable
3 weeks ago • Tue Sep 25, 2018 7:11 am
gprincesssub​(sub female) • Tue Sep 25, 2018 7:11 am
Finally, saying the words.
Finally, feeling comfortable in my own skin.
Finally, not feeling ashmed of who I am.
Finally, being able to say I am a submissive.
Now, to start learning how to be a good submissive!
gprincesssub​(sub female)
Where to go from here
3 weeks ago • Tue Sep 25, 2018 7:18 am
gprincesssub​(sub female) • Tue Sep 25, 2018 7:18 am
Question to other submissive. Where do I go from here.
Subjazzy​(sub male)
3 weeks ago • Wed Sep 26, 2018 6:18 am
Subjazzy​(sub male) • Wed Sep 26, 2018 6:18 am
I like that you posted this. I have suppressed my submissive side for many years. Finally I let go and accepted it. Accepted myself. I don’t know the answer to your question, as I am still trying to figure that out. I do know I like myself for finally accepting that this is what I like and who I am!
Kinsub1
Crave it
1 week ago • Wed Oct 10, 2018 11:56 pm
Kinsub1 • Wed Oct 10, 2018 11:56 pm
I’m very submissive and kinky I love being humiliated,spit on nastier the better from a bbw white dominated female that’s down for any thing
FabSeverus​(dom male)
1 week ago • Thu Oct 11, 2018 1:37 am
FabSeverus​(dom male) • Thu Oct 11, 2018 1:37 am
More like a blog than a forum question in my opinion...
Bunnie
1 week ago • Thu Oct 11, 2018 1:49 am
Bunnie • Thu Oct 11, 2018 1:49 am
Hi @ gprincesssub, that’s really awesome to hear icon_smile.gif I understand how daunting it can be, and I know the desire you have to want to become the best you can be for Him/Her. I think reading is a good place to start... read blogs, forums, books (there are forums that have recommended readings... also google will become your best friend lol), listen to podcasts. I would also suggest to start writing. It really helps with thoughts and to learn about yourself as you go... you can also share it with your Dominant. Research the different aspects of the lifestyle to help get an understanding of the different dynamics that people identify as, and to help you find the things that resonate with you. The best thing you can do for a potential Dominant, is get to know yourself, and learn to communicate that. Explore, have fun and stay safe icon_biggrin.gif
Phanes57​(dom male)
1 week ago • Thu Oct 11, 2018 2:06 am
Phanes57​(dom male) • Thu Oct 11, 2018 2:06 am
Some good references to read:

jolynnraymond.com/2013/02/whats-in-a-name-an-explanation-of-bdsm-roles/ What’s In a Name? An Explanation of BDSM Roles 18 c

bdsmtrainingacademy.com/ BDSM Training Academy

bdsm-sexperts.blogspot.com/2010/07/types-of-dominance.html Kinkster's Guide
gprincesssub​(sub female)
You would be correct
1 week ago • Thu Oct 11, 2018 5:02 am
gprincesssub​(sub female) • Thu Oct 11, 2018 5:02 am
FabSeverus wrote:
More like a blog than a forum question in my opinion...



Sorry, I accidently posted in the wrong spot. Then couldn't figure out how to delete.
gprincesssub​(sub female)
Thank you
1 week ago • Thu Oct 11, 2018 5:03 am
gprincesssub​(sub female) • Thu Oct 11, 2018 5:03 am
Phanes57 wrote:
Some good references to read:

jolynnraymond.com/2013/02/whats-in-a-name-an-explanation-of-bdsm-roles/ What’s In a Name? An Explanation of BDSM Roles 18 c

bdsmtrainingacademy.com/ BDSM Training Academy

bdsm-sexperts.blogspot.com/2010/07/types-of-dominance.html Kinkster's Guide



Thank you, I will definitely look into them.
SOGirlOnFire​(sub female)
1 week ago • Thu Oct 11, 2018 8:35 am
SOGirlOnFire​(sub female) • Thu Oct 11, 2018 8:35 am
Bunnie wrote:
I think reading is a good place to start... read blogs, forums, books (there are forums that have recommended readings...


Absolutely!!!! I am also reading profiles..... of other subs and Doms both... helping me learn just what my Dom “looks like” by learning about me.....especially if their words RESONATE (thank you Bunnie) with you...