Can you get into the swingers scene as a single male? Many have tried and failed (some more spectacularly than others) but we talk do Daniel, who not only lived to tell the tale, he also wrote a book about it called “swingland”.
We discuss:
How to be yourself
Creepy things to avoid
Not sending pictures of your junk (unless asked for)
Making yourself useful at parties in order to get yourself to be indispensable
Playing “Poker for pussy"
Swinging as single male versus a female
Experienced couples versus newbies
Being aware of couples with internal issues
Dangers of recently broken-up single females
Sense of humor
Swinger-based TV series are mediocre at best, so we have to make our own
References:
Read "Swingland: Between the Sheets of the Secretive, Sometimes Messy, but Always Adventurous Swinging Lifestyle"
David Stern: website, twitter
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