Join a group of friends as they explore the world of Adult Consensual Spanking. This unique kink offers much more than many realize. Come join in the fun. There are many lessons to be learned.
Frenzy: a state or period of uncontrolled excitement or wild behavior.
Some of us have had an insatiable need to be spanked or spank all the spankees we meet. It can feel like a lot of fun! All that new energy and excitement, wanting to try all the things! It's fairly common when things are new: new experiences, new parties, new partners, etc.
And we're not just talking about discipline spankings here, even though in our experience, that's the kind of spankings some of us fantasize the most about. We are talking about all the spankings!
This spanking frenzy can be fun, but it can also have a dark side. We've done some less-than-smart things to satisfy our cravings. Feeling like we need to have it, and we need to have it now! But from the outside, this frenzy can look a little different. And sometimes can even harm existing relationships.
Have you ever experienced frenzy?
What have you done for spanking?
Were you keeping yourself safe?
We have some tips on how to navigate frenzy, how to keep yourself safe, and how to watch out for some of the traps you may find along your journey. It's all about finding balance, after all.
Remember, you're a whole human being and not just a spanker or a spankee.
At long last, get to know Burning River SSC, our local spanking group! We've been talking about them for years, and we finally got to sit down with them and our microphones and chat.
Join us as we talk with our friends from the board of Burning River SSC (including our very own Karina Isabel). We talk about the importance of vetting at parties, education about spanking, inclusivity, munches, and much more.
If you are near the Cleveland, Ohio area and want to check out a smaller party and dip your toes into the spanking scene this is a great group to check out.
What is vetting?
If you've been to a spanking party before, you've probably heard this term, and have probably even been vetted: it's the background check done to keep everyone at the party as safe as possible.
But it's not just for parties, this is good for one-on-one play as well.
How is vetting done? What should you expect? Well, there's many ways to vet someone. But we discuss a few tips that we've used, have seen used, and have been involved with in the past, for both Tops and Bottoms alike.
So, if you're interested in attending a spanking event, or even hosting a spanking event, or even want to keep yourself safe in one-on-one play (and who doesn't?), and want to learn more about the vetting process, we hope this episode will give you some good tips to get started.
At a private school, contraband is discovered. The usual suspects are gathered and interrogated. Will they confess? Will they throw each other under the bus? And what consequences will they face?
Join us for another radio play, adapted by Lizzy, based on The Mysteries of Verbena House, a Victorian spanking novel in two parts by Etonensis. This book has some interesting history itself, including a connection to another famous holiday season author.
If you enjoy this type of programming, let us know, and perhaps we can include more in the future.
Happy Holidays!!
Trigger Warnings: Trauma, War, PTSD, Childhood Abuse.
PTSD - Post Traumatic Stress Disorder - a condition brought about by trauma and diagnosed by a professional. Please reach out to a professional to be treated and diagnosed.
We have the brave Mark, the Very Bad Boy, and a military veteran, joining us to share his experiences as a spanking male bottom with PTSD. Mark shares how he worked with professionals to be diagnosed and begin his well-being process.
Triggered by loud noises, Mark still enjoys his spanking, but it has been a challenge to work through. Mark shares his journey, how he handles his triggers and how he worked with a professional spanking domme to gently overcome his fears from childhood.
Fortunately for veterans in the U.S., the V.A. offers quality resources, you just have to be able to get through all the paperwork, and fortunately, they'll also have someone to assist you with that as well!
Please be kind to those around you, we never know what someone is going through.
Please be responsible and seek help. We all have our own timelines, but we are still responsible for how we allow triggers to affect us. We can't control who or what is going to trigger us, but we can choose how to respond. There are professionals who will work with you, either with your mental health or, potentially, even a professional spanker.
Thank you to all of our service members!!
How do you get to experience Consensual Non-Consent?
After years of communication <3
After reading the room.
After working with your partner.
What is it? How is it done? What does this complicated term even mean? This is definitely a level 201 episode. We encourage you to listen to our listed episodes below if we're just starting in the scene.
Definitely listen to this episode as well. However, be aware that this kind of dynamic and relationship comes with time - we do not encourage you to practice consensual non-consent for your first scene no matter how much of a fantasy it may be. Fantasies are very different from your very first scene. Maybe one in a million Spankos have had their fantasy fulfilled in their first scene.
You may get the opportunity to practice CNC during organized role play at a party or perhaps even while in character with your partner. Please remember you can always advocate for yourself and use your safe word. Have some self respect and remember to enforce your boundaries. It's your body - your choice. It is a Privilege for those to those who gained access to your body. A privilege you can revoke at any time. Go and have fun and enjoy all the spankings.
The GASP team has opened Pandora's box of spanking!
Join us to hear about the Herculean task the GASP team and volunteers are pulling off this time. All your favorites are back, plus some new and exciting additions you'll hear about here first!
Are you ready for: merriment, games, a dionysian feast, activities, classes, Littles tents, vending, a summer camp experience, and lots more??
There's even room for the Tops to join in the activities this year!
Do you have the Midas touch? Even if you don't, the spanking Bottoms sure hope you have the spanking skill set to deliver a sound and welcomed spanking.
And of course, there will be plenty of bratting, mischief, antics and all the revelry GASP is known for. Who knows what the faces that launched a thousand ships may have up their sleeves. Rubber duckies? Sass? Insolence? Or something else?
Join us at the spanking Elysian Fields for GASP 2026.
What's scary on Halloween? Scarier than ghosts or monsters, even? It's the fear of missing out!!
We've all experienced it. Sometimes just in our spanking lives, sometimes in our vanilla lives, but the fear of missing out is real. No one likes to feel excluded. We are social creatures, after all. Though there are some of us who also thrive on the joy of missing out.
Join us as returning guest, JoJo Shenanigans, our kink-affirming therapist, gives some pointers on managing the horrors that come from missing out, managing your feelings, navigating jealousy, and finding ways to maybe be included more in the future.
Travel down the yellow brick road to Texas where you can experience All Things Wicked and Magical this year at The Lone Star Spanking Party happening November 6-10, 2025.
As you move on down, move on down the road, you'll also find a dark and mysterious trail leading to a Gothic Masquerade… as well as experiencing all the spanking your bottom (or hand) could desire! (As if that was possible.)
Get whisked away on an imaginative journey as your fabulous hostess, Sarah Gregory, tells us about all of the magical excitement in store at Lone Star 2025. From classes and educational opportunities, to individual sign-up events, to dining and dancing, there's something at Lone Star for every spanko! It truly sounds like a weekend you won't want to miss!
But you'd better hurry, the gates to Oz won't stay open forever!
Tickets are going fast and rooms are filling up!
How big is your blanket and how many people have access to that blanket? Do you share different blankets with different types of people? join us on this episode and find out what we mean by blanket consent.
generally people don't automatically obtain blanket consent, please be responsible when you play with others; practice self advocacy and learn to establish your boundaries, though this episode is not about that. We just want to remind you that it is your body and it is your choice.
There are fantasies and then there's reality. Sometimes it takes a lot of communication to be able to fulfill our fantasies; other times it may be instant chemistry, but please be advised: You don't have blanket consent with everyone.
Miss Chris is back to explain how she helps bring your spanking fantasies to life. But what if your fantasy involves more than one spanker?
You're in luck! Miss Chris is not alone!
Miss Chris & Uncle Eric are traveling around the country making your co-topping fantasies into reality. We were lucky enough to catch up with them in the DC area for an evening on their journey.
We get to know a bit about Uncle Eric, life-long spanko, BDSM practitioner, and video star. We learn about his connection with Miss Chris, some of their shared interests, their role play energy together, their thoughts on the state of the adult spanking industry, and even get to do a little role play with returning guest (and OnlyFans LIVE regular), Avery, who also joined us for this episode.
And we even get their thoughts on global warming… no, not like the environmental kind. But a playful, historical, and (as we later found out) very fun spanking activity!
After seeing the photo they provided for this episode, their recreation of the famous painting, American Gothic, the spanko version, who wouldn't want their "globes" warmed up by these two pros?
So if you'd like to make your fantasies a reality, head over to MisssChris.com (the extra 's' is for 'spanking') and take advantage of this unique opportunity while it lasts!
She dreamed about spanking parties all her life, but it wasn't until a chance encounter with a certain podcast (who, us?) that veteran and award-winning little (oops, spoilers!), Hilly, realized her dream could come true!
Now this veteran of the leather community, pack member, and littles educator joins us to discuss the littles scene, how welcoming spankos are to littles, and even how to know if you may be a little yourself.
Wait, Leather AND Littles? Yes, it can be a thing. And Hilly exemplifies the combination and explains how it can work. And for those who may not be familiar with Leather OR Littles, Hilly explains both!
If you don't understand littles, if you are curious about them, if you have a little in your life, or if you identify as one yourself, this is an episode you won't want to miss.
You may have heard Switches make the best Tops. So join us as Ella and NightOwll share their journey on why they chose to start Topping. Have you, as a Top, done your homework? Because these two new Tops know exactly what they want when they are on the receiving end, and therefore did their research to become the very best Top they could ever be.
Whether they were born to Top or whether they grew into their roles, matters little, because what really matters is the amazing Tops they are becoming.
Anything a guy does, a girl can do- while wearing heels AND even bleeding.
Now, do we have any male Bottoms out there who've grown to be a Top as well?
Perhaps you're like Karina and you've been happy remaining a Bottom. Do what works for you.
Don't forget - Tops need aftercare too. Check in with your Tops and remind them how amazing they are!
Tops, please be open to feedback - it's how we grow.
So, if you've ever wondered how some Tops get to spank everyone and people barely reluctantly agree to play with you, listen in and learn a thing or two, you might get to play more.
Do you have a favorite kinky song? We have so many, this is our 2nd episode featuring them!
Take a listen to some more of our favorite kink-adjacent tunes, and some recommended by you, our listeners, and we'll share our thoughts of how they tie in to this special interest of ours. Some of them are super obvious, and some are classics you may not have considered. And some of them inspired some new items on Sky's spanking bucket list!
Are there songs we haven't covered? Let us know. Maybe we'll check them out in another future episode.
What's on your kinky playlist? We've still barely scratched the surface.
Music Videos from this Episode:
Have you ever wanted to do a school role play?
Or have you done a school role play and loved it?
Join us as we talk with Miss Marissa, Jason, and Nicole as we discuss a detention role play at Lonestar.
What makes a school role play headspacey? Lines? Tone? Scolding? Do you prefer a serious role play or a more playful role play?
We discuss all of the things related to what we love about role play. What are some of the things you worry about or think about ahead of a new event? Listen as Nicole discusses advocating for herself based on concerns she had ahead of time and discusses
Besides for the fun of role play, we discuss what it takes to run a role play event well. We discuss safety, lessons learned, timing, and functionality of the event.
As an added bonus we get to talk about negotiating spanking in a vanilla relationship. At what point do we no longer consider a supporting partner no longer a vanilla?
Learn some aspects of advocating for yourself when it comes to headspace events such as a school role play, detention, principal's office, or even British discipline.
At GASP 2025 this year, we were given the opportunity to host, and record, a Tops Roundtable. Featuring our own BigGirlSpanker, returning Guest Mr. Ben, returning guest Miss Bernadette, and newcomer to the podcast but veteran to the community, CallMeMissMeg.
We had some initial questions and allowed questions from the audience and the Tops to respond spontaneously. We had a great discussion on all things related to Topping, discussion on setting scenes, communication in scenes, handling disappointment, learning and expanding skills, and more. What you will hear has been minimally edited, to bring you as close as possible to the live recording at GASP. We hope you will enjoy the discussion.
If you have additional questions you would like us to address in the future, please send us a message at https://www.spankopodcast.com/contact/ and will will try our best to answer you in a future episode.
Join us for a very special episode of Spanko! Podcast:
For pride month this year, we wanted to gather with some friends and have a very important discussion about what it's like to be Trans in the Spanking Community.
Returning guest, Avery, hosts this episode, as we gather at GASP this year with a group of extraordinary and wonderful spankos to discuss their journeys of self-discovery, acceptance, and how their individual eggs cracked (the evolution of the self-exploration journey and rebirth as your true self).
We cover a wide range of topics such as gender identity affecting your chosen role as Top, Bottom, or Switch, and finding acceptance both with yourself and in the community. We also dive into some deep and personal territory and bring a lot of emotions and vulnerability forward. The journey is not always an easy one, but what we all experienced in creating this episode was love, support, and acceptance in ways that moved some of us to tears.
Whether you have trans friends, feel awkward about discussing trans issues, have questions about playing with a trans person, are on your own journey of self-discovery or acceptance, or if you have ever felt awkward about yourself in any capacity, please give this episode a listen.
We hope we've captured and shared with you the beauty and love in the room that we all felt while recording this very special episode.
Coming to you from TASSP 2024, AssaultedPeanut and Nemo join us to discuss Co-Topping and Co-Bottoming in a spanking scene. Whether you have been in a Co-Topping or Co-Bottoming scene, or you hope to someday, this episode is one you won't want to miss.
What does it mean to play with multiple Tops or multiple Bottoms in a scene? What challenges come up? What makes it so fun? Our guests, and our hosts, who have had this kind of experience share what their experiences have been like and why it's fun to explore playing with more than one friend at the same time.
Our exceptional guests regale us with poetic, and almost play-by-play, reminiscences of this type of "dance" and what makes it so "yummy."
If you're anything like BigGirlSpanker and you enjoy the art of quality spanking implements, you may have wondered where you should store your items.
Should I use a backpack (Eric has)?
Or a baseball bag (Eric does)?
Or a trash bag (hey, we all need to improvise at times)?
Or is there something better out there?
Wonder no more!
Our friend, Matt and his company LuxxGear, have come to the rescue! He has invested and devoted himself to creating quality implement bags known as KinkBags. Join us for a tour of their product, and see if it will work for an implement hoarder… I mean "collector"... like Eric. We bet it may work for you, too.
Five years!? The Spanko! Podcast has been releasing episodes every other week for the past five years! Join us as we share memorable moments and memorable episodes. *emotional tear* Feel free to share some of yours in the comments below.
Our friends, fans, and patrons join us as we record this episode LIVE (kinda) and share some of their own experiences of joining the scene AND how our little podcast has helped them along their journeys.
Did you ever write in the Spanko Secrets notebook??? This completely anonymous notebook has been traveling with us since 2022. Join us as we open it for the first time and read some excerpts! *scandalous*
As always, we advocate for safety and clearly spoken communication. Please be safe and consensual in your spanking play.
Here is to another 5 years!
Have you experienced the thrill of a multi-day national… erm, international spanking party? Cause if you haven't, TASSP is for you!
Join our Spankoholics and our lovely TASSP Hostess, Princess Kelley May, and hear about some of our adventures at TASSP last year, and what we have to look forward to coming up June 12-15th, 2025.
Live out your school fantasy at the TASSP immersive school role play, where you'll have to go to class and even do school work.
Perhaps you can beg your strict teacher for some stickers for being "good."
Or perhaps you want something a bit more serious: Shit, I have Saturday detention head space!
But there's more than "just" school events! TASSP has something for everyone!
And this year, you may even find yourself living out some roleplays from days gone by… or maybe from the distant future!
There's also judicial events, littles events, playful events, classes, the vendors fair, the Spanking Booth for charity, and so much more!
However you like to play, consensually of course, come to TASSP and join in the adventures!
So, your partner is a spanko.
We've talked to couples in the past who are in a relationship with a vanilla (or non-spanko) partner. Of course this can have its challenges for a spanko. But this time we hear from the non-spankos themselves!
Join us as we get to know some of the struggles, pitfalls, and even the perks you can experience when being in a relationship with a spanko, even if you aren't one yourself. TASSP 2024 provided an opportunity for non-spanko partners to gather together in support of one another, and they invited us to join in some of their discussions.
If you have a vanilla partner in your life, or a spanko partner whose interest you may not fully grasp, this is an episode you won't want to miss.
Are you ready for a week-long SPANKING Summer Camp adventure?
In this episode we visit with Ryan from the Fox Haven Campground, an open and affirming place where all your explorations can become reality.
Learn about CanSpanks Spanko Camp where you can have your spanking fantasies come true at a sauna, in or around the lake, in a school house, a glitter palace… basically wherever your heart desires! AND all the consensual pranks are allowed… even CONFETTI!
This camp has vanilla activities, too, such as kayaking, swimming, and camping AND you get to enjoy nature in the wild, and perhaps even see a moose! But of course we come for the outdoor spanking fun on hundreds of acres of privacy! Consider coming to CanSpanks for a camping experience you'll never forget!
Ella and Listener return for Take 2 of our most listened to episode ever! Join us as we interview them at TASSP for their take and experiences with Spanking & Crying.
Learn about the five types of emotional crying:
loss/separation
Grief
Helplessness/powerlessness
Physical pain/discomfort
Empathetic crying
Positive experience/moving situation
Dacryphilia - What does it mean and are you one?
Let's ponder about what are your responsibilities as a spankee when getting spanked for a transgression?
Did you know Ariel Anderson is THEEE Amelia Jane Rutherford? Find out why she chose this specific last name. Oh, such a naughty reason!
Like many of us Ariel was raised to feel ashamed, and also thought she needed to repress her spanking desires. However, she was fortunate to discover the wonderful world of bondage modeling and the adventures of spanking videos! How did she resolve this inner conflict?
She is a published author as well! But you'll have to join us and listen to find out her book title as well as the book's unique subject matter.
Such a fun interview of a brilliant individual! We were uber excited that Ariel Anderssen agreed to spend an evening with the Spanko! Podcast on her visit over from the U.K. We hope you enjoy it as much as we did!