Our podcast is all about the stories that matter—and we’re here to share them with you. Originally launched as What Women (and other wonderful Humans) Want, the Authentically Kinky Podcast has evolved into a dynamic platform that champions raw, unfiltered storytelling. In our sixth season, spanning over 350 episodes, we bring you in-depth conversations with some of the most fascinating voices in the kink and fetish community.
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For 350 episodes, HiThereCatsuit has been asking the questions, listening to incredible stories, and introducing audiences to the fascinating humans who make up the kink and fetish community. Now, it's time to turn the tables!
In this very special anniversary episode of Authentically Kinky, powered by Clips4Sale, the New England Dominatrix, Mistress Eustacia, takes over the interviewer's chair and puts Catsuit in the hot seat.
This isn't your typical anniversary celebration. It's a raw, honest, and intense conversation about the early years of the podcast, the journey from What Women (and Other Wonderful Humans) Want to Authentically Kinky, and the experiences that shaped the show and its host.
Eustacia goes beyond the public persona to explore the more intimate side of HiThereCatsuit, asking questions that reveal the human behind the microphone. With no topic off-limits, this is an opportunity to get to know the person who has spent years giving others the space to tell their stories.
What happens when the interviewer becomes the interviewee? What stories have remained untold? And what does it take to build a show dedicated to authenticity?
Join us for a milestone episode filled with honesty, emotion, reflection, and revelations.
Thank you for being part of 350 episodes of extraordinary people and unforgettable conversations!
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Navigating the depths of identity, exploring the world of kink, and embracing the many passions that make us who we are. Amber Vanity joins Authentically Kinky for a candid conversation about transition, self-discovery, and the art of living authentically.
Amber Vanity is a person of many passions, and when something captures her interest, she goes all in. From kink and martial arts to music, photography, videography, graphic design, game development, and software engineering, Amber brings curiosity, creativity, and technical expertise to everything she does.
In this episode, Jon aka HiThereCatsuit sits down with Amber to explore her journey through gender transition, her experiences with BDSM and bondage, and the importance of education, empathy, and self-expression.
Amber shares how she discovered her passion for kink, the perspectives she has developed from exploring both sides of the slash, and the experiences that have shaped her understanding of herself. She also discusses the mental immersion of a scene, challenging bondage experiences, and the physical preparation required to explore her interests safely and confidently.
Beyond the scene, we discover the creative mind behind the many projects that keep Amber engaged, including her work as a DJ, musician, photographer, videographer, designer, and developer. Her enthusiasm for deep conversations and technical challenges reveals another dimension of a person who approaches life with curiosity and commitment.
This is a conversation about embracing every facet of who you are, challenging assumptions, and finding fulfillment in the things that make you uniquely you.
In This Episode:
Amber's journey through gender transition and self-discovery
Education, empathy, and understanding diverse experiences
Discovering kink before knowing what to call it
Exploring different perspectives on the slash
The intersection of kink, identity, and self-expression
Mental immersion and the transformative experience of a scene
Challenging bondage experiences and personal growth
Physical preparation through martial arts, stretching, and conditioning
Her many creative passions, including music, DJing, photography, and videography
Game development, software engineering, and technical creativity
Balancing personal interests with event hosting and community involvement
The importance of curiosity, authenticity, and embracing every side of yourself
About Amber Vanity
Amber Vanity is a multifaceted creative whose interests span kink, martial arts, music, photography, videography, graphic design, game development, and software development. A passionate explorer of the things that inspire her, Amber brings an inquisitive mind and a deep appreciation for technical and meaningful conversations to everything she does.
About Authentically Kinky
Authentically Kinky is the show the kink and fetish community listens to for stories of amazing humans in the community and the experiences that made them who they are.
Hosted by Jon aka HiThereCatsuit, the podcast explores the people, passions, and perspectives that shape the world of kink and fetish.
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What happens when you interview a professional Dominatrix in her own dungeon? Well, things get a little tangled!
For this special in-person edition of Authentically Kinky, powered by Clips4Sale, Jon aka HiThereCatsuit visits Mistress Montana at her Cincinnati-area dungeon for an unforgettable conversation. As Mistress Montana puts the ropes on Catsuit, they explore her extraordinary journey through the world of BDSM, her decades of experience, and the stories that have shaped her career.
With more than 30 years as a professional Dominatrix, four dungeons across the United States and the UK, and a reputation as an educator and mentor, Mistress Montana has plenty to share. But this isn't just an educational conversation. It's a fun, spontaneous, and wonderfully unconventional interview that proves you never know where a conversation might lead when you're tied up with the right person!
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A note to viewers: This interview is presented for educational and entertainment purposes. The artistic rope demonstration was consented to prior to filming and is intended solely to demonstrate technique and creative expression.
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Authentically Kinky, powered by Clips4Sale, welcomes award-winning performer Ria Bentley for an honest and inspiring conversation about identity, kink, and building a successful career in adult entertainment.
Ria Bentley joins Jon aka HiThereCatsuit to share her journey into adult content creation, from her first performance to earning industry recognition and winning the Trans Erotica Award. Along the way, she opens up about embracing her authentic self, discovering kink, and finding confidence in an industry that demands both creativity and resilience.
Ria discusses her experiences as a Dom, her favorite collaborations, the importance of mentorship, and the strategies that have helped her build a lasting connection with her audience. She also offers practical advice for aspiring performers and content creators, emphasizing consistency, authenticity, and the value of showing up for your community.
From navigating social media challenges to celebrating career milestones, this conversation explores what it takes to build a career on your own terms while staying true to who you are.
In This Episode:
About Authentically Kinky
Authentically Kinky is the show the kink and fetish community listens to for authentic stories of amazing humans in the community and the experiences that made them who they are.
Hosted by Jon aka HiThereCatsuit, the podcast explores the people, passions, and perspectives that shape the world of kink and fetish.
Official Podcast of FetishCon | DomCon Community Choice Award: Podcast of the Year 2026
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What’s the difference between a kink and a fetish? How does shame affect sexual expression? And what can therapy teach us about accepting the things that turn us on?
In this episode of Authentically Kinky, sex therapist and author Gigi Engle explores kink, fetish, BDSM, communication, consent, boundaries, and sexual self-acceptance.
We discuss communicating with kink partners, building a kink kit for beginners, the neurobiology of pain and pleasure, impact play, and overcoming the societal judgment that can make it difficult to embrace our sexuality.
A thoughtful conversation about understanding ourselves, communicating our desires, and exploring sexuality with greater awareness.
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What happens behind the scenes at the world’s biggest fetish creator platform?
In this special Fetish Friday Creator Spotlight, Authentically Kinky talks with Clips4Sale executives Christy and Salima about the platform, creator compliance, changing state laws, and the complex work involved in operating a global fetish content marketplace.
They answer questions about what creators should understand about compliance and the evolving regulatory environment, while offering insight into the systems and considerations that help keep the platform operating.
A practical, behind-the-scenes conversation for fetish creators and anyone interested in the business and regulatory side of online fetish content.
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Missed the first-ever LIVE edition of Authentically Kinky? We've got you covered with this special re-edit featuring The Domme Kat!
The Domme Kat brings together her worlds of professional domination, wrestling, performance, and kink education in a conversation about competition, character, creativity, and the freedom to play.
She shares the story of her first competitive wrestling match, what hooked her on the experience despite losing, and the exhilaration of finally winning. She also discusses character development in wrestling, the distinction between playing a face or a heel, and why embracing our playful sides can be so powerful.
Plus, she takes us into the unique world of zentai and explains how covering the body can actually open up new possibilities for movement, sensation, and performance.
It's a conversation about finding joy, exploring identity, and discovering unexpected connections between wrestling and kink.
If you missed it live, now you can experience it — re-edited and ready to play.
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BONUS EPISODE: Fox & Elle of Bitches Love Leather | Authentically Kinky
This bonus audio-only episode of Authentically Kinky, powered by Clips4Sale, takes us behind the scenes with Fox and Elle of Bitches Love Leather.
What started in 2017 as a hobby crafting leather gear grew into a thriving business built around quality, customization, durability, and connection to the kink community.
Fox and Elle talk about the origins of Bitches Love Leather — including the story behind the name — and how their business grew during COVID. They share what goes into designing and creating harnesses, cuffs, gags, and other custom leather gear, why color and personalization matter, and how creating gear can become an important part of someone's personal expression.
They also discuss building trust with customers, memorable moments seeing their gear out in the community, and their experiences at Folsom.
And when they say their gear is built to last, they mean it: Bitches Love Leather backs its products with a lifetime guarantee.
In this episode:
• The origins of Bitches Love Leather and its name
• Starting the business in 2017
• Growing during COVID-19
• Customization, color, and personal expression
• Designing and crafting harnesses, cuffs, and gags
• Building trust and relationships with customers
• Memorable moments in the kink community
• Fit, comfort, and durability
• Preparing for and experiencing Folsom
• Why quality leather gear is made to last
Sound Bites:
“My gear has probably lasted six years and still looks new.”
“It’s so rewarding to see our gear out in the community.”
“Our gear is made to last and guaranteed for life.”
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Mistress Catalina St. James, The Regal Sadist, joins Jon, aka HiThereCatsuit, for a conversation about making the leap from corporate success to a life built around authenticity, creativity, connection, and BDSM.
With a decade of marketing experience working with Disney, FX Networks, and Apple, Catalina brings a unique perspective to branding and digital strategy. She explains how skills from her business career — particularly communication, marketing, active listening, and strategic thinking — have become essential parts of her work as a dominatrix and consultant.
We also explore the unexpected relationship between improv and BDSM: listening closely, responding in the moment, embracing uncertainty, and being willing to jump into the unknown.
Catalina shares her thoughts on building a digital persona without losing your authentic self, the importance of voice and tone, and why vulnerability can be a source of strength rather than weakness.
As AI and digital media continue to change how creators present themselves online, Catalina makes the case for something technology can't easily manufacture: genuine human connection.
She'll also be teaching Beyond the Bio: Strategic Marketing for the Modern Dominatrix at DomCon New Orleans on September 30.
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Jade Desires joins Authentically Kinky for a conversation about trust, connection, authenticity, and the many dimensions of dominance.
A New England-based professional Dominatrix and top-leaning sensual/sado-masochistic switch, Jade has spent more than 18 years immersed in the BDSM community. Known as a primal player and an alchemist of sensation, she brings curiosity, experience, and a passion for helping others explore their own desires.
Jade talks about her origin story, the importance of education and community, the challenges faced by professional Dominatrices, sensory deprivation and mental play, and the confidence it takes to develop an authentic style of dominance. She also discusses regional differences in Dom styles and her hopes for the future, including teaching and deeper community involvement.
A thoughtful conversation about what happens when trust, connection, curiosity, and authenticity come together.
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Porsche Lynn takes us back to 1985, when her journey into the adult entertainment industry was just beginning.
In this episode, Porsche tells the story of making her first movie, Depraved Innocent, in San Francisco and what it was like stepping onto a professional set for the first time. She remembers the people she met, the atmosphere of the San Francisco adult industry, and the experience that left her wanting to do more.
She also shares the extraordinary moment when she was sitting in producer Reuben Sturman's office discussing a potential contract when the Space Shuttle Challenger disaster unfolded on a wall of television screens. It was a moment that put her career decisions into an entirely different perspective.
From there, Porsche recalls traveling to Chicago for an industry convention, signing autographs for the first time, and realizing just how dramatically her life was changing.
But this episode ultimately takes a much more serious turn. Porsche recounts a terrifying night in a Chicago hotel that resulted in a serious injury and became a turning point in an abusive relationship. She opens up about recognizing the line that could not be crossed, leaving the relationship, and rebuilding her life.
Most importantly, Porsche uses her experience to offer encouragement to anyone who may find themselves in an abusive relationship: there is a way out, and you deserve better.
This is another chapter in the real story of Porsche Lynn — the performer, the woman, and the person behind the name.
Viewer discretion is advised. This episode contains mature subject matter and discussion of domestic violence.
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Nyxie Noc joins Jon, aka HiThereCatsuit, for a conversation about kink, consent, authenticity, vulnerability, and the stories that shape who we become.
Nyxie shares their journey into kink and self-discovery before introducing their innovative Burgers framework for consent — a memorable way of thinking about agency, communication, boundaries, and the importance of having the power to say no.
The conversation explores why authentic self-expression matters, how vulnerability can create stronger connections, and why the stories behind our earliest experiences can become core memories that influence our identities.
From consent and communication to community support and personal growth, Nyxie offers thoughtful perspectives on how we can create safer, more connected spaces by being willing to listen, share, and understand one another.
Link to Nyxie's project: bit/ly.nnkinksurvey
Nyxie on Instagram @viridi_lux_consulting
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Season 7 of Authentically Kinky premieres with Tomiko.
Recorded at FetishCon 2026, Tomiko joins Jon, aka HiThereCatsuit, for a deeply personal conversation spanning 26 years of modeling, fitness competition, acting, fetish content creation, kink, creativity, and self-discovery.
Tomiko talks about discovering kink unexpectedly, her early experiences with bondage, finding her enjoyment of dominance, and the importance of teasing, anticipation, presence, and connection.
The conversation takes an especially personal turn as Tomiko reflects on approaching 60, finding confidence in her body, learning to love herself, and embracing the person she has become. She also discusses how her experience as an actress influences her fetish work and why authentic representation of BDSM and fetish culture should capture the emotional connection between people, not simply the visual elements of a scene.
Then there's Fluffy: Tomiko's delightfully unusual custom monster worm inspired by Dune and the unexpected character it has become within her creative work.
We also discuss her mainstream acting experiences, Nine Muses, Lost Girls, Burning Man, creativity, community, and her plans for a solo adventure documenting her journey.
This is a conversation about kink, creativity, confidence, aging, authenticity, and discovering the freedom that comes from knowing exactly who you are.
Episode 7 — The Story Continues
Porsche Lynn closes the burlesque chapter of her story with a personal look back at nearly 20 years in the world of burlesque.
From her first experiences performing in Lansing, Michigan, to traveling throughout the United States, Canada, Europe, and beyond, Porsche reflects on the people, places, experiences, and lessons that shaped her journey.
She also discusses the enduring artistry of burlesque and pays tribute to Dita Von Teese, whose work has helped preserve and expand the tradition for a new generation.
For Porsche, burlesque has always been about more than taking off clothing. It's about performance, artistry, self-expression, and celebrating the human body.
And now, the story moves into its next chapter.
Porsche previews the upcoming episodes exploring her roughly ten years in the adult film industry — including the good, the bad, the ugly, and everything in between.
The story continues.
Two podcasts. Two conversations. One special crossover event.
During the week of September 1, Authentically Kinky, powered by Clips4Sale, and the Placemaker4Perversion Podcast trade microphones for a unique podcast crossover.
Mistress Audry Lu Black joins HiThereCatsuit on Authentically Kinky, while HiThereCatsuit appears as a guest on the Placemaker4Perversion Podcast during the same week.
With 27 years of BDSM experience, Mistress Audry Lu Black brings decades of perspective as an educator, author, media personality, and community voice.
Mistress Audry Lu Black discusses consent, responsibility, authenticity, self-acceptance, communication, vulnerability, protocols, relationship safety nets, and the evolution of her personal and professional life.
The conversation also explores impact play and sensory feedback, the community and cultural significance of Folsom Street Fair, improv as a communication tool, and the difference between kindness and niceness.
This is more than a guest appearance. It's a two-sided conversation between two podcasts exploring the people, experiences, ideas, and communities that make kink culture so fascinating.
Mistress Audry Lu Black on Authentically Kinky.
HiThereCatsuit on Placemaker4Perversion.
Same week. Two perspectives. One crossover event.
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Award-winning. Internationally recognized. Multitalented.
The Clips4Sale Fetish Friday Creator Spotlight shines the spotlight on Goddess Lilith, an internationally recognized Dominatrix, Luxury Goddess, fetish model, cam performer, actress, dancer, singer, podcaster, kink educator, certified life coach, Reiki Master, author, and avid gamer.
With a Liberal Arts degree from Harvard with a concentration in dramatic arts, Goddess Lilith has built an extraordinary career spanning performance, fetish, entertainment, education, and entrepreneurship.
Her work has appeared in publications including Hustler's Taboo, Malevolent, AltStar, Darkside Magazine, XBIZ Cam World, Beckett Online Gamer, ASN Lifestyle, and Skunk, while her mainstream film work can be found through IMDb.
Her impressive list of accolades includes Best Female Cam Performer at the 2018 and 2019 Fetish Awards, Best Fetish Cam Model at the 2022 XBIZ Cam Awards, Cam Model of the Year at the 2022 Fleshbot Awards, and Fan Favorite Alt Visual Arts Book of the Year at the 2021 AltPorn Awards.
Goddess Lilith is also an accomplished entrepreneur and community builder. She launched New England's first recurring FemDom event, Exalted Femdom, in 2018 and continues to host curated foot worship events throughout the region.
She is also the organizer of the 2026 FemDom Awards, taking place November 14 in Las Vegas, bringing together the community to celebrate achievement, creativity, and excellence in FemDom.
In 2023, she launched QueenGoddessLilith.com, featuring exclusive content, photo sets, direct messaging, and an extensive clip library.
She is also the author of How I Make Bank as a Foot Model (And You Can, Too!) and a musician with death metal band Sorrowseed, which has released three major albums and toured extensively.
The Clips4Sale Fetish Friday Creator Spotlight celebrates the creativity, careers, and stories behind the creators who make the fetish community what it is.
Moxie Rose is a sex and kink educator, former dominatrix, burlesque performer, founder of The Radar Dames Burlesque, and Director of Communications for @shopquinky.
Based in Wenatchee, Washington, Moxie has nearly 20 years of personal experience as a kink practitioner and has spent the past decade educating others about sex, kink, BDSM, communication, and authentic self-expression.
In this episode of Authentically Kinky, powered by Clips4Sale, Moxie discusses her journey into kink education and the experiences that shaped her approach to teaching.
The conversation explores why communication is the foundation of safer and more meaningful kink, the importance of queer-inclusive and gender-affirming sex education, and how kink can provide opportunities for self-discovery, identity exploration, and personal growth.
Moxie also discusses her current work as Director of Communications for @shopquinky, her experiences as a former dominatrix, and her work as the founder and performer with The Radar Dames Burlesque.
From education and communication to creativity and authentic expression, this episode explores what it means to create spaces where people can better understand themselves and one another.
Follow Moxie Rose on Instagram: @moxierosedances
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Wiley Wolfe is a Toronto-based kink educator, coach, Professional Dominant, performer, and community builder whose approach to kink centers on authenticity, vulnerability, education, and risk-informed consent.
In this episode, Wiley discusses his nearly decade-long professional journey through kink, including working with hundreds of clients, teaching at BDSM conferences across North America, organizing more than 70 community events, and creating immersive fetish theater and performance experiences.
The conversation explores the art of scene creation and immersion, professional domination, pet play, community building, boundaries, client relationships, and the role of vulnerability in authentic power exchange.
Wiley also discusses the Wolfe Academy of Desire and his broader philosophy of helping people develop a deeper understanding of intimacy, play, and self-expression.
This episode is a thoughtful exploration of what happens when kink becomes more than an activity and instead becomes a practice of authenticity.
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How do culture, communication, and human connection shape power exchange?
In this audio based episode of Authentically Kinky, we welcome Miss Caittrin Lee, an internationally recognized Dominatrix and educator based between Singapore and Hong Kong. With more than a decade of experience across lifestyle and professional FemDom spaces, Miss Caittrin shares her unique perspective on dominance, trust, communication, and the cultural differences that influence kink communities throughout Asia.
We explore how language, body language, and psychological safety impact BDSM dynamics, as well as the challenges and opportunities of traveling internationally as a kink professional. Drawing from her experiences across cultures, Miss Caittrin offers valuable insights into intentional power exchange, authentic connection, and the evolving global kink community.
Topics include:
• Kink culture in Singapore and Hong Kong• Professional domination and personal growth• Psychological safety in BDSM• Human connection and trust• Language and communication in power exchange• Impact play and sensation• Travel, privacy, and biometric concerns• Building authentic relationships within kink
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Episode Description
What if intimacy isn't about sex, performance, or achieving an outcome—but about learning how to truly connect?
In this episode, we welcome Andre Lazarus, Somatic Intimacy Guide, former U.S. Marine, and relationship expert known for his work on the UK television series Virgin Island. Through his coaching practice, Coming Closer, Andre helps individuals and couples cultivate deeper connection through communication, vulnerability, consent, and embodied awareness.
Drawing from his unique journey from military service to intimacy coaching, Andre shares how courage and vulnerability are more connected than many people realize. We explore the role of emotional expression in relationships, why communication often breaks down, and how societal expectations—particularly around masculinity—can prevent people from experiencing authentic intimacy.
Andre also discusses practical ways to advocate for your needs, build trust through active listening, create safety in relationships, and redefine intimacy beyond sex and orgasm. Whether you're navigating a long-term partnership, exploring personal growth, healing from past experiences, or simply seeking more meaningful connections, this conversation offers valuable insights into what it means to truly come closer.
Show Notes
Andre Lazarus is a Somatic Intimacy Guide and media-recognized voice on relationships, sexuality, and embodied connection. Best known for his role on the UK television series Virgin Island, Andre helps people develop healthier, more authentic relationships through communication, consent, vulnerability, and body-based learning.
In this conversation, Andre shares the story behind his practice, Coming Closer, and explains how intimacy extends far beyond physical connection. He discusses the importance of emotional honesty, the power of active listening, and how vulnerability can serve as a catalyst for deeper relationships.
The discussion explores the impact of cultural expectations on emotional expression, particularly for men, and offers practical tools for creating safer, more connected partnerships. Andre also explains how consent, curiosity, and self-awareness create the foundation for intimacy in both monogamous and ethically non-monogamous relationships.
About Andre Lazarus
Andre Lazarus is a Somatic Intimacy Guide and former U.S. Marine known for his work on relationships, sexuality, and embodied connection. He gained national recognition on the UK series Virgin Island, where he supported participants as a surrogate partner alongside therapists, emphasizing safety, consent, and authentic connection.
Through his practice, Coming Closer, he helps individuals and couples navigate challenges such as performance concerns, trauma healing, and reigniting long-term relationships, as well as exploring both monogamy and ethical non-monogamy. His approach is rooted in the Somatica® Method, focusing on body-based learning and replacing shame with curiosity.
Matt Giacomelli, known throughout the tickling community as Ticklish Chubbs, joins Clips4Sale Fetish Friday for an inside look at one of the most unique corners of the fetish world.
We discuss his introduction to tickling kink, creating engaging content, maintaining safety standards, working with performers, and building trust within the community. Matt also shares stories from events, lessons learned as a creator, and practical advice for those interested in producing fetish content.
Topics include:
• Tickling fetish culture• Content creation and production• Consent and safety• Community building• Marketing and audience growth• Working with models• Event experiences• Creating authentic content
How do filmmakers portray kink, intimacy, and power dynamics responsibly on screen?
In this episode of Authentically Kinky, we go behind the scenes of the upcoming Magnolia Pictures film I Want Your Sex with intimacy coordinator Yehuda Duenyas.
Yehuda discusses the role of an intimacy coordinator, the importance of authenticity and safety in film production, and how filmmakers approach stories involving kink, desire, consent, and power exchange. We also explore the creative process behind I Want Your Sex, directed by Gregg Araki and starring Olivia Wilde, Cooper Hoffman, Charli XCX, and Chase Sui Wonders.
The conversation examines how mainstream media can portray BDSM and alternative relationships with nuance, respect, and authenticity while creating safe working environments for performers.
Topics include:
• What an intimacy coordinator does
• Safety and consent in film production
• Kink and BDSM in mainstream media
• Authentic representation of sexuality
• The making of I Want Your Sex
• Olivia Wilde's performance
• Power dynamics and storytelling
• The future of intimacy coordination
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In Part 3 of the Real Porsche Lynn Podcast series with Phil Holthaus, the conversation moves from backstage stories to deeply personal life experiences.
Phil recounts how a simple fan letter led to a meaningful friendship with Vixen founder Jan Kuehnemund and eventually opportunities to work alongside the legendary rock band. He shares behind-the-scenes stories from major music festivals, touring life, artist security, and the unique challenges facing performers in a changing music industry.
The discussion then turns to one of the greatest battles of Phil's life: cancer. With remarkable honesty, he describes receiving a life-threatening diagnosis, enduring treatment, surviving serious complications, and drawing strength from faith, family, friends, and an unwavering determination to keep fighting.
This episode is a powerful testament to resilience, loyalty, courage, and the warrior mindset required to face life's toughest challenges.
Chris Bacos joins Authentically Kinky for an engaging look at more than four decades of involvement in the BDSM and fetish community.
Beginning with his earliest experiences in the 1980s, Chris reflects on discovering kink, finding acceptance, building relationships, and witnessing the transformation of fetish culture over the years. He shares stories about influential people he met along the way, his experiences creating fetish media, and the lessons he learned about communication, trust, authenticity, and personal growth.
This conversation explores the history of BDSM culture, the significance of community, the emotional aspects of power exchange, and the role of self-expression in alternative lifestyles.
Topics include:
• Early kink experiences and self-discovery
• Community building and acceptance
• The changing BDSM landscape
• Producing and directing fetish media
• Professional dominants and mentorship
• Bondage, submission, and emotional connection
• The symbolism of collars
• Favorite dungeons and future adventures
If you're interested in kink history, community culture, or personal stories from inside the scene, this episode offers a thoughtful and educational perspective.
With more than 207,000 followers on FetLife, Domina Sea Aphrodite has become one of the most recognizable voices in the kink community. A successful Wall Street executive by day and a respected lifestyle Dominatrix and community leader by passion, she brings a unique perspective on balancing professional success, family responsibilities, and an active role within the BDSM world.In this candid and insightful conversation, Domina Sea Aphrodite shares her journey from early childhood experiences that hinted at her dominant nature to becoming a prominent figure in the kink community. We discuss the evolution of her sexuality, the realities of maintaining multiple identities, and the challenges and rewards of building an authentic online presence and thriving community.Domina Sea Aphrodite offers thoughtful perspectives on dominance, submission, consent, and the importance of authenticity in BDSM. She explores how meaningful connections are created, why respect remains foundational to healthy kink dynamics, and how memorable experiences can have a lasting impact on people's lives.Her philosophy is captured in one unforgettable statement: “I’m not compensated with money, I am compensated with memories.”Whether you're involved in the kink community, interested in alternative relationship dynamics, or fascinated by the intersection of personal authenticity and professional achievement, this episode delivers an honest and engaging conversation about sexuality, leadership, community, and personal growth.Topics include:• Discovering kink and dominance• Building a thriving FetLife community of 207,000+ followers• Balancing Wall Street, family, and kink• Authenticity and leadership in BDSM• Dominance, submission, and consent• Sexuality and personal growth• Community building and education• Creating meaningful experiences and lasting memories