LadySusweca

dom trans woman

58

Single

I'm a transgender woman that has identified as female for a long time. It has brought peace to my life to be who I truly am.

I am more of a bohemian and outlier. I am the woman who usually wears long skirts and listens to classic rock from the 70s. I have varied interests and I'm always learning. My latest fascination is neuroscience but I am starting to take time for meditation, fly-fishing, and to crochet.

I have a job I love that I worked hard for so I will not post a face pic since it could endanger my job. I have put a lot of time and effort to get my Masters of Social Work and a license to throw it away.

I have Meniere's disease so I am losing my hearing. I may also have vertigo unexpectedly which puts an end to the day since it could be hours before I feel ok again. I do know ASL but working on becoming more fluent for another way to communicate.

I'm not really looking anymore. If I do find a female submissive that would be good, but if I don't then it is what it is. I still enjoy being part of the community.

I am not looking for a male submissive. I have had bad experiences in messages from male submissives and it would take a lot to change my opinion. Most don't even seem to bother to read my profile to learn about who I am as a person but want to live out a fetish of being with a transgender woman.

I try to always learn. There is always something new I want to find out more about. I don't know as much as I think I do. I won't do any of those BDSM "tests". What I enjoy may change from day to day and can't be put into percentages that will not be the same in a month.  When it comes to having a submissive, my goal is see her become a better person. Anyone can spank, cane, or tie up someone, but it takes love, kindness and patience to watch your submissive grow into someone who cares and takes pride in herself. Sometimes the push she needs is not punishment, but help in seeing what she can do to help herself.

Watersports, urine and scat play are turn offs along with probably a great way to end up sick. The only other hard limit is diapers. I'm not a fan of people who think they have all of the answers. It means you are close minded and not open to learning anything. I'm not an expert on anything and I am ok with that.

I will not sugarcoat the truth. Some people probably will not like that but it's not something I will change to please people.

I do not send a pic after one message. I will never send a pic unless I trust the person first.

There are also men who think that as a transgender woman that I am just a fetish to please them. I know that I deserve better than that.

Calling me goddess/sweetheart/honey or any other pet name will not win you any favors. Using the term goddess is especially annoying. I have more self-esteem than that.

I do not respond to BOND messages unless I already know you.

I am always in the process of discovering who I truly am. 
I try to keep my life in balance. Meditation and my spirituality help me stay grounded. I am finding that staying single is my best option since there has been too much trauma and abuse in my life. It is not what I want, but it is what is best.





You cannot really be too concerned with what people think of you. You're on your own adventure of growth and discovery. So it's not always good to be who people think you are, especially if you subscribe to it as well ... which is easily done, because then you don't have to figure out who you are, you just ask somebody else.         Tom Waits

Jul 21, 2020