LadySusweca

dom trans woman

58

Single

I'm a transgender woman that has identified as female for a long time. It has brought peace to my life to be who I truly am.

I am more of a bohemian and outlier. I am the woman who usually wears long skirts and listens to classic rock from the 70s. I have varied interests and I'm always learning. My latest fascination is neuroscience but I am starting to take time for meditation, fly-fishing, and to crochet.

I have a job I love that I worked hard for so I will not post a face pic since it could endanger my job. I have put a lot of time and effort to get my Masters of Social Work and a license to throw it away.

I'm not looking for a submissive.

I won't send the first message anymore but I will reply to messages from women, men I will just ignore.

I try to always learn. There is always something new I want to find out more about. I don't know as much as I think I do. I won't do any of those BDSM "tests". What I enjoy may change from day to day and can't be put into percentages that will not be the same in a month.  When it comes to having a submissive, my goal is see her become a better person. Anyone can spank, cane, or tie up someone, but it takes love, kindness and patience to watch your submissive grow into someone who cares and takes pride in herself. Sometimes the push she needs is not punishment, but help in seeing what she can do to help herself.

Watersports, urine and scat play are turn offs along with probably a great way to end up sick. The only other hard limit is diapers. I'm not a fan of people who think they have all of the answers. It means you are close minded and not open to learning anything. I'm not an expert on anything and I am ok with that.

I will not sugarcoat the truth. Some people probably will not like that but it's not something I will change to please people.

I do not send a pic after one message. I will never send a pic unless I trust the person first.

There are also men who think that as a transgender woman that I am just a fetish to please them. I know that I deserve better than that.

Calling me goddess/sweetheart/honey or any other pet name will not win you any favors. Using the term goddess is especially annoying. I have more self-esteem than that.

I do not respond to BOND messages unless I already know you.

I am always in the process of discovering who I truly am. 
I try to keep my life in balance. Meditation and my spirituality help me stay grounded.





You cannot really be too concerned with what people think of you. You're on your own adventure of growth and discovery. So it's not always good to be who people think you are, especially if you subscribe to it as well ... which is easily done, because then you don't have to figure out who you are, you just ask somebody else.         Tom Waits

July 2020