How do you deal with fake/insta doms?

If people are asking you to go to another site then you know they are trying to get "tributes" or scam some other way.

To be fair, there are submissives who have done the same thing.

Thu Aug 28, 2025 12:54 am • 41 Replies • 13280 Views

Protection and Legal Precedent regarding Kink Accidents

After Miss Bonnie's brilliant post there is not much to add. A legal definition on consent may be needed.

People who are impaired are not considered able to give consent. This could be a mental hea ...

Thu Aug 21, 2025 2:57 pm • 7 Replies • 3710 Views

Slaves finding Slaves for their Master

To quote DrknessNC

"YOU are replaceable."

Dominants are replaceable also and we seem to forget that. We are having relationships based on trust and consent. If it is not done with consent then i ...

Wed Aug 13, 2025 2:25 pm • 24 Replies • 10690 Views

Red flag behavior : The Carrot

House Tallon has a very valid point. I will not be posting any face pics on the Cage and it will take a lot of trust before I send someone a pic. Some of us have careers that are public or require a l ...

Tue Aug 12, 2025 12:02 am • 9 Replies • 4473 Views

Detransitioning

As a transgender woman, I will suggest the book Stone Butch Blues by Leslie Feinberg. It is from an FtM perspective but it may help.
I would also suggest finding a counselor or clinical social worke ...

Sun Sep 22, 2024 10:17 am • 14 Replies • 6778 Views

Why is there a segregated personals catagory just for transpeople?

It does need to be fixed, but it's been that way since I joined. I doubt it will be changed anytime soon.

Mon Sep 12, 2022 10:01 pm • 16 Replies • 5124 Views

Gender identity ideology

To be honest, I don't really care what these so called "experts" like Helen Joyce have to say. They don't know the experience and only have their opinions. Some "experts" are helpful and others are ha ...

Sun Aug 28, 2022 6:04 pm • 113 Replies • 30947 Views

Gender identity ideology

Simplylaura, thank you.

It means a lot to me to know that there are people like you who are an ally to the trans community.

Thu Aug 25, 2022 12:55 am • 113 Replies • 30947 Views

Gender identity ideology

"I have a question. Do you a trans women want to stand with all women? Or do you as a trans woman want to be a separate group?"

I see myself as a person with thoughts, hopes, and dreams, but I don' ...

Wed Aug 24, 2022 5:03 am • 113 Replies • 30947 Views

Judgemental people

The transphobia that exists is incredible.

I have given up because of it and just come to read blogs and forums now.

Fri Jan 21, 2022 5:57 pm • 55 Replies • 20810 Views