Why is there a segregated personals catagory just for transpeople?

It does need to be fixed, but it's been that way since I joined. I doubt it will be changed anytime soon.

Mon Sep 12, 2022 10:01 pm • 16 Replies • 2127 Views

Gender identity ideology

To be honest, I don't really care what these so called "experts" like Helen Joyce have to say. They don't know the experience and only have their opinions. Some "experts" are helpful and others are ha ...

Sun Aug 28, 2022 6:04 pm • 113 Replies • 15244 Views

Gender identity ideology

Simplylaura, thank you.

It means a lot to me to know that there are people like you who are an ally to the trans community.

Thu Aug 25, 2022 12:55 am • 113 Replies • 15244 Views

Gender identity ideology

"I have a question. Do you a trans women want to stand with all women? Or do you as a trans woman want to be a separate group?"

I see myself as a person with thoughts, hopes, and dreams, but I don' ...

Wed Aug 24, 2022 5:03 am • 113 Replies • 15244 Views

Judgemental people

The transphobia that exists is incredible.

I have given up because of it and just come to read blogs and forums now.

Fri Jan 21, 2022 5:57 pm • 55 Replies • 11333 Views

A little disappointed

Actually the BDSM community had nothing to do with speaking up about who I am. It's people like Sylvia Rivera, Marsha P. Johnson, and Christine Jorgenson who were willing to speak up and take action. ...

Sat Dec 11, 2021 2:43 am • 32 Replies • 7403 Views

Gender identity ideology

I remember the days of the Harry Benjamin Foundation. It still had a heavy hand on the transgender community when I came out (at least in the US). They let us know that they get to decide when we were ...

Sun Nov 28, 2021 5:03 am • 113 Replies • 15244 Views

Gender identity ideology

Shahh, you are right, unless you have been there then what we have experienced won't be understood. There is also the emotions that go along with it and the nightmares you wish would end.

The laws ...

Sat Nov 27, 2021 6:34 am • 113 Replies • 15244 Views

Gender identity ideology

As a transgender woman I'm not sure what to say about this discussion. Understanding where I have been and where I am going is probably not for people who don't understand the journey to decide. Even ...

Fri Nov 26, 2021 9:22 pm • 113 Replies • 15244 Views

Why not state your location?

Most probably want to play online and not really take the risks of real bdsm.

Pics may not be put up for a variety of reasons like family, their job, or other friends, not finding them here.

Wed Nov 17, 2021 11:41 pm • 17 Replies • 2709 Views