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Can't seem to meet a dominant women

We dont always get what we want, and have to accept second best. Try a prodom, or if can accept flr , there is gynarchy, viola voltaire. She will educate and find a lady to serve. You must be willing ...

Sun Mar 22, 2026 10:52 pm • 37 Replies • 3927 Views

Author

LadySusweca

Forum

Femdom

Topic

Can't seem to meet a dominant women

How do you deal with fake/insta doms?

If people are asking you to go to another site then you know they are trying to get "tributes" or scam some other way.

To be fair, there are submissives who have done the same thing.

Thu Aug 28, 2025 12:54 am • 41 Replies • 14240 Views

Author

LadySusweca

Forum

Lifestyle BDSM

Topic

How do you deal with fake/insta doms?

Protection and Legal Precedent regarding Kink Accidents

After Miss Bonnie's brilliant post there is not much to add. A legal definition on consent may be needed.

People who are impaired are not considered able to give consent. This could be a mental hea ...

Thu Aug 21, 2025 2:57 pm • 7 Replies • 3954 Views

Author

LadySusweca

Forum

Lifestyle BDSM

Topic

Protection and Legal Precedent regarding Kink Accidents

Slaves finding Slaves for their Master

To quote DrknessNC

"YOU are replaceable."

Dominants are replaceable also and we seem to forget that. We are having relationships based on trust and consent. If it is not done with consent then i ...

Wed Aug 13, 2025 2:25 pm • 24 Replies • 11277 Views

Author

LadySusweca

Forum

Maledom

Topic

Slaves finding Slaves for their Master

Red flag behavior : The Carrot

House Tallon has a very valid point. I will not be posting any face pics on the Cage and it will take a lot of trust before I send someone a pic. Some of us have careers that are public or require a l ...

Tue Aug 12, 2025 12:02 am • 9 Replies • 4724 Views

Author

LadySusweca

Forum

Absolute Beginners

Topic

Red flag behavior : The Carrot

Detransitioning

As a transgender woman, I will suggest the book Stone Butch Blues by Leslie Feinberg. It is from an FtM perspective but it may help.
I would also suggest finding a counselor or clinical social worke ...

Sun Sep 22, 2024 10:17 am • 14 Replies • 7267 Views

Author

LadySusweca

Forum

Transgender & Nonbinary

Topic

Detransitioning

Why is there a segregated personals catagory just for transpeople?

It does need to be fixed, but it's been that way since I joined. I doubt it will be changed anytime soon.

Mon Sep 12, 2022 10:01 pm • 16 Replies • 5430 Views

Author

LadySusweca

Forum

Generally Speaking

Topic

Why is there a segregated personals catagory just for transpeople?

Gender identity ideology

To be honest, I don't really care what these so called "experts" like Helen Joyce have to say. They don't know the experience and only have their opinions. Some "experts" are helpful and others are ha ...

Sun Aug 28, 2022 6:04 pm • 113 Replies • 32507 Views

Author

LadySusweca

Forum

Generally Speaking

Topic

Gender identity ideology

Simplylaura, thank you.

It means a lot to me to know that there are people like you who are an ally to the trans community.

Thu Aug 25, 2022 12:55 am • 113 Replies • 32507 Views

Author

LadySusweca

Forum

Generally Speaking

Topic

Gender identity ideology

"I have a question. Do you a trans women want to stand with all women? Or do you as a trans woman want to be a separate group?"

I see myself as a person with thoughts, hopes, and dreams, but I don' ...

Wed Aug 24, 2022 5:03 am • 113 Replies • 32507 Views

Author

LadySusweca

Forum

Generally Speaking

Topic

Gender identity ideology