MistressBXoXo
dom female

Ontario, Canada
Age
32
Relationship status
Single
About me
My Name is MistressBXoXo. I am 28 and have 8 years experience in the lifestyle, as a Mistress/Domme. My Love languages are Physical Touch, Acts of Service and Quality Time. My Enneagram Type is the Challenger and Sub Type is The Protector. My Myers Brigs is INFJ/ISFJ. I am still in school. I Will DROP ALL CONTACT, ONLINE OR ILR WITH THOSE WHO CANNOT STICK TO AGREED TERMS OR FOLLOW ORDERS, PERIOD.
BDSM and me
I am seeking a SERIOUS BDSM/FLR/LONGTERM/LIFETIME RELATIONSHIP/D/s/M/s MARRIAGE. I don't have time for games, at least, not in that sense, anyway. My experience falls under Attending Munches, Play parties and Workshops. I also have experience in Spanking, Toys, Humiliation, locking the Cock, Feminization, Aftercare, pegging, punishment, FLR, Human furniture, Protection, Facesitting, (QUEENING) Faceslapping, Blue Balls, Ball Busting, Role play etc. I fully understand that Dominance and Submission is to be EARNED as well as Honorifics, and NEVER freely Given. This lifestyle is SACRED to me and part of my SELF CARE. I am willing to do online for now, SO LONG AS YOU DO THE WORK AS WELL. Ideally, I would like ILR in the future and someone to be My Special Collard Boy, Owned, AS MINE, forever. I ABSOLUTELY ADORE My Submissive/Slave/Wolf Pup. Of course, you can wish to be released, As that is your RIGHT as a submissive. If you wish to be released as a Slave, please discuss with me first. However, I warn you, It is extremely heartbreaking for both parties. I have expectations and expect them to be followed, such as, Clean Shaven, ALWAYS (No facial hair, or down there) If I give you a Punishment, I expect it DONE, to the best of your ability WITH PROOF, on, or before the due date, unless you ask for an extension. I understand things happen, however, I WILL NOT TOLERATE INCONCISTANCY, especially when it comes to Communication. There is a REASON WHY I EXPECT CONSTANT, CONSISTENT COMMUNICATION. As Well as CLEAR, OPEN, HONEST COMMUNICATION. IT IS IMPORTANT IN D/s AND M/s Relationships, Especially in Marriage. Again, I Understand things Happen in life, I STILL EXPECT YOU TO KEEP IN CONTACT WITH ME. Most of you don’t seem to understand or care that YOU ARE MY RESPONSIBILITY, as long as you are MINE and are in a Relationship. I WORRY. DO NOT DO THAT TO ME. THAT IS NOT OK. COMMUNICATION MUST BE ON THE DAILY. ESPECIALLY AS I AM TRAINING YOU. I am eventually seeking Domestic Servitude. It's not just about Sex, though I WILL USE YOU FOR MY PLEASURE. I Cherish, Love and Care for My Submissive/slave in all Aspects of their life, Mental, Emotional, Physical, Financial, Etc. If I say NO to something, It's for a reason. You are Precious to ME and I DO NOT take that for granted. I expect Honest, Open, Clear Communication, and respect my Sub's limits. Your Constant Willing Submission to ME is a GIFT, every day and I Highly Cherish that. IF or WHEN I find a Primary, I WIL NOT ALLOW YOU OR ANYONE ELSE TO THINK OR SEE MY SUBS/SLAVES/WOLF PUP AS EXPENDIBLE! That is ABSOLUTELY UNACCEPTIBLE AND INEXCUSEABLE AND WILL NOT BE TOLERATED. THIS IS NOT A GAME. My EXPECTATIONS for you would be as FOLLOWS:
-You will call me "Ma'am" until I have decided YOU have EARNED the Honorific
-IF YOU ARE A TOTAL NEWBIE, I EXPECT YOU TO DO YOUR OWN RESEARCH INTO THIS, I WILL NOT DO ALL THE WORK FOR YOU, YOU KNOW HOW TO USE GOOGLE, DO IT. How well do you take Instruction? If I send you an article or several, I FULLY EXPECT YOU TO READ THEM. You NEED to UNDERSTAND what You're getting yourself into here. 
-ALWAYS be a Gentleman at all times
-Journal (I MUST have access to this AT ALL TIMES)
-Exercise 
-Eat Healthy
-One Outside Training of your Choice, that you are interested in. (Book, Webinar, Conference, etc)
-One Lifestyle Training of your Choice, (Book, Webinar, Conference, Workshop, etc) For example, I am reading The New Topping Book. MUST be Lifestyle Related
-Set Bedtime
-Meditation/Mindfulness (Download CALM OR HEADSPACE APP)
-Mental Health Days (You will have ten a Year)
-WHEN AND IF I TELL YOU YOU MUST Download:
-Obedience APP
-Chastikey APP
-Nudge love APP
-Must be Shaven Clean at all times (Unless otherwise Negotiated)
-Must Take BDSMTEST and send me results
-During sex, you WILL make me Cum AT LEAST TWICE (unless otherwise specified or I want to cum more) before you are allowed to cum yourself, if I did not put you in chastity
-You will BEG for the things you want (ie. Licking and Eating MY PUSSY) 
-Open, Honest, Clear, Communication 
-IF YOU CAN NOT Communicate with me for a certain amount of time, I wish to know about it, IN ADVANCE if at all possible, so that I do not worry. IT'S NOT THAT HARD TO COMMUNICATE CONSISTANTLY. IF YOU DO NOT COMMUNICATE, I WILL BE FORCED TO ASSUME TWO THINGS: 1.) THAT SOMETHING HAPPENEND TO YOU and 2.) THAT YOU NO LONGER WANT THIS. I CANNOT NOR WILL I BE THE ONLY ONE COMMUNICATING. I DON'T CARE IF YOU'RE SHY, YOU WILL ALSO CARRY THE CONVERSATION. THAT'S WHY YOU WORK ON IT.
-You will take care of your Mental Health
-I will make all Major and Small Decisions (If you are a SUB, I will consider your opinion and input) If you are a MALE SLAVE, Unless negotiated prior, You have no opinion, because you have a DICK)
-There WILL be Spanking
-There WILL be Sex and There WILL be Play (Unless otherwise Previously Negotiated) 
-No underwear while home (Unless this is your kink and I Request it) MALE Sex Slaves are to be Naked at all times, for MY USE AND PLEASURE
-You will provide Sex on Command
-You will not Cum without Permission (If you do, there WILL be Punishment which ALWAYS fits the Crime) This includes CHASTITY
-Remember who you BELONG TO
-Make Domme/Mistress Proud
-I SPEAK, You OBEY (If you DO NOT feel comfortable with something, I Expect you to use your SAFEWORD and we will discuss it/adjust it) This includes Punishment
-Good Morning/Goodnight Texts
-I will NEVER make you do something, you cannot do. If you feel you cannot do something, Speak to me and we will figure something out

WHAT CAN YOU DO FOR ME, NOT WHAT CAN I DO FOR YOU? I'm a LIFESTYLE DOMME. THIS ISN'T ABOUT YOU OR WHAT YOU WANT!
-What does "Service" mean to you?
-What Special Skills do you have to offer?
-What Specialized Knowledge do you have? 
-What do you have to offer, that no one else can provide?
EXAMPLES: Are you a good Handyman/petsitter/walker/Good with taxes? Make a mean pizza? Willing to Chauffer? IT Specialist who can hook up my wireless printer? Etc.

You will be asked these questions frequently, It would be nice if you actually came up with an answer and have one READY. Most of all, I CRAVE CONNECTION WITH MY SUB/SLAVE/WOLF PUP.

IF YOU ARE A SWITCH: You WILL Decide what you want more. If you want to Dom More, Then you WILL NOT BE MY SUB, PERIOD. 

RELIGION: If you are SOME FORM of NON RELIGION, I DO NOT CARE how well we fit, It WILL NOT WORK. 

I WATCH ACTIONS, NOT WORDS. YOUR ACTIONS WILL SHOW ME THE TRUTH, MORE THEN YOUR WORDS COULD OR EVER WILL. I SUGGEST YOU THINK LONG AND HARD, IF YOU REALLY WANT THIS, BECAUSE TIME IS PRECIOUS AND WASTING MINE, WILL HAVE CONSEQUENCES. IF YOU THINK THAT 2 and 4 HOURS AWAY IS "TOO FAR" THEN DON'T BE IN MY INBOX! 

My BDSM Test results are as Follows: 100% Brat Tamer, 100% Dominant, 100% Degrader, 100% Rigger, 100% Sadist, 100% Mistress, 100% Primal (Hunter) (I am a Wolf), 100% Non Monogamist. I am Ambiamorous, Which means I can be in either a Monogamous or Polyamorous relationship. I take great pride in what BELONGS TO ME. You are a Representation of ME and I expect nothing less. I am Childfree and do NOT WANT CHILDREN. I am the ALPHA Domme, and You are the Omega. Opportunity for a possible Contract, in future. Primal Wolf, Seeking Omega Wolf Pup Serious Inquiries ONLY! I UNDERSTAND that NOT EVERYONE WILL FIT MY EXACT PROFILE, DO YOU? 
Limits
My limits consist of Golden Showers, Scat, Children, Knife Play, Needle Play, Gun Play, Medical Play, Animals
What's new
Everything.  If you feel I am the right Domme for you, Don't hesitate to contact me. I hope to hear from you soon, with Answers to My Questions. THOSE WITHOUT COMPLETE PROFILES OR SENDING ME A MESSAGE WITH NO ANSWERS TO MY QUESTIONS, WILL NOT BE CONSIDERED.
Update date
Dec 4, 2022
Member since
Jul 26, 2020
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