larkspur

sub female

40

Single

I’m a thinker with an adventurous side. I might be a bit of an instigator when there’s a new experience to be had – yep, I’ll climb barefoot to the top for the view. I'll always choose a book and a cup of coffee over a phone. I find a lot of joy in appreciating the small stuff.

I've come to realize that a relationship has to include a D/s dynamic to be right for me long-term. I hope to find the right experienced dominant to be in that role.

I believe in being emotionally healthy and capable. I don't think being successful and happy precludes me from being a sub. It's the fact that I'm strong and can be independent that makes my submission to someone a gift. That's why when I let go and yield you'll know it's real and that you've got all of me.

The dominant I'm looking for understands how to control themselves first before they reach to take control of someone else. I love clear communication and honesty. For me, understanding and connection inspires trust, yielding, the urge to please. I like authority to extend beyond the bedroom.

I look for a dominant who can express his authority with a look while everyone still has their clothes on. I am looking for the dominant that can allow me to put down my strength and melt. In exchange I offer passion and care in equal measure. There is something powerful in sharing the time when my mind goes quiet, I become centered in my body, and listen with my whole self. I find freedom in restraints.

Outside BDSM: Avid reader, gardening enthusiast, hiking and anything outdoors, all things DIY. I believe in staying healthy (yoga and powerlifting) and an looking for someone who shares that priority.

--About Messages--

I am not looking for an online only dom. I'm not looking for a quick hookup.

Will I answer your email? I'm trying to avoid the trolls like a smart little sub should, so give me a reason to know you're not one.  If you write me, please tell me about yourself. I believe submission is about connection. I want to get to know you.

Submissive? yes. Playful? yes. Brat? probably not - I just don't get the appeal of being snotty. Discipline - yes, please. Impact - yes, please string me up and flog me till my knees go weak.

I'm open-minded. The standard no drugs, nothing illegal, no animals etc

Dec 6, 2020

Aug 5, 2020