Ever worried you’ll end up alone?

I used to think like this. I also used to think it was possible to set a part of myself aside in the name of 'growing up' and achieving traditional life goals.

Now my confidence in what I am and un ...

Sun Nov 01, 2020 4:31 pm • 79 Replies • 20521 Views

Online Vs Real

I see connecting online solely as a way to meet someone. I have friendships that I maintain online because of distance, but I can't imagine building and sustaining a d/s dynamic that way. Similar to B ...

Tue Oct 27, 2020 4:43 pm • 57 Replies • 16862 Views

Age Gap

I think to some degree this depends on the age gap and the relative maturity of the younger party. For myself, I understand myself a lot more now than I did in my 20s. I think it wouldve been difficul ...

Sat Sep 26, 2020 12:31 am • 34 Replies • 8819 Views

Anyone else scared of horror movies?

Mark nw london uk​ have you seen Fido? It's a great but lesser known comedy zombie movie.

Mon Sep 07, 2020 6:01 pm • 40 Replies • 9273 Views

Anyone else scared of horror movies?

I love the 80's/90's classics, where it's more about the anticipation than the gore or pop-out scare. The original Halloween from 1978 is a favorite. I introduced a friend to the original IT earlier t ...

Mon Sep 07, 2020 12:37 am • 40 Replies • 9273 Views

Communicate I repeat Communicate

I agree getting ghosted sucks, mostly for the waste of invested time and energy, but I wouldn't worry about what you did wrong. If that person isn't interested that's on them. Be confident in who you ...

Mon Sep 07, 2020 12:19 am • 12 Replies • 4869 Views

Does anyone care about feelings as well as the sexual aspect of this relationship?

kajirasubm has great points. Essentially you could ask that questions about relationships. There are people who only want the physical and then there are people who are looking for connection and enga ...

Mon Sep 07, 2020 12:06 am • 26 Replies • 8287 Views

Positive Masculinity

Personally I appreciate men who are calm and self-controlled, driven, and assertive, but like tallslenderguy I think that there are as many expressions as there are men. Many traits that are positive ...

Sat Aug 08, 2020 11:34 pm • 11 Replies • 4547 Views

I'm a new Dom experienciencing a breakup. Help!!!

You are under no moral obligation to fix someone who isn't mentally healthy or to stay with them because they're troubled. Dealing with mental emotional baggage, particularly from abuse, takes a lot o ...

Fri Aug 07, 2020 10:14 pm • 32 Replies • 12279 Views

Submissive in principle but not in practice - how to adjust her thinking

What does she say when you ask her why she's being disobedient? Have you talked about it? As others have said, if you're serious about the relationship, you need to communicate. Find out if she's con ...

Fri Aug 07, 2020 9:29 pm • 15 Replies • 6270 Views