MonkeyGrl NotLooking

kinky female

46

I am here to explore the kink scene and connect with interesting people. I’m not currently looking for a partner, but I’m always open to genuine friendship, great conversation, and getting to know someone organically. I’m very selective about who gets my time, attention, and ultimately my submission. If something truly exceptional develops naturally, that’s a different story.

I am petite (5’) with a very toned/athletic build (former trainer). I have long hair, light eyes, and many would say an overall younger appearance (I take good care of myself). I also love wearing high-heels and anklets and I love the sexy look they provide.

In my vanilla life, I enjoy outdoor activities, fitness, sci-fi/fantasy, cooking; and I work in the financial industry. I am, without question, a sapiosexual (someone who is attracted to intelligence). I adore those I can learn from.

For me, having a real connection with a partner is essential. I cherish a mental connection before a physical connection. A deep mental connection allows me to have the necessary comfort and attraction to best open myself to a deeper physical connection.

In my vanilla daily life (professional roles, etc.), I have a strong and assertive persona; meanwhile, in private, I crave submission. I don’t easily submit. It takes a truly worthy Dom to earn that from me. I have high standards for men, and I have even higher standards for a Dom.

I have a history in long, monogamous relationships, which has limited my sexual experience and exploration at times. I may seem awkward (or inexperienced) at times, but I also have a freaky side that really craves primal behavior. I love the rush of adrenaline and the intensity of the ultimate and intimate surrender. I also enjoy affectionate, soft aftercare after being ravaged in every naughty way.

I am very choosy about who I allow into this part of my life; but the right man will get to enjoy almost anything he desires. I’m choosy, but also eager to please for the right person.

I am DDF, and you should be as well; be able to show proof before any play occurs. It should be noted that I am not looking for anything short term or a one night stand.

My interests and hard/soft limits are evolving; but trust, communication, and consent are critical to any encounter. However, once I have determined you are worth MY time to learn MY limits, I’ll share them.

My Journey to find the RIGHT Dom for me. Not me for you, but YOU being right for me in order for Me to willingly submit.

For clarity, I’m not currently looking or actively pursuing anyone. I’m happy to have interesting conversations and make genuine friends, but I’m selective about who gets my time and attention. “Not Looking” isn’t an invitation to convince me otherwise. If something truly exceptional develops naturally, that’s a different story.

If this means anything to you:
Enneagram 6
INFP

August 2020