GiannaRaysub female
GiannaRay
**I DO NOT DO PURELY ONLINE-and never will***
HSV2+
^^^GOOGLE is a wonderful thing
**NEW-
I know there are doms on here that won’t reach out first. Because of my diagnosis, if someone doesn’t reach out to me, I assume it’s a deal breaker. So if you’re interested in getting to know me, you will have to make the first move.
-if you are still interested and want to message me, include in the message why you’re interested in someone who’s HSV+. If you don’t I’ll know you haven’t even read my profile (god that is sooooo common) and I will not answer you.
Here to learn more about myself, the lifestyle and make friends with like minded people.
I am learning, exploring and growing to discover my likes and dislikes. In my normal life I am a strong, educated, intelligent, ambitous independent but very caring woman. Sexually I'm drawn to more dominant men, who are comfortable being in the drivers seat mostly. But there is a difference between dominance and pushy. I know I'm not a service sub and am not interested in 24/7 or TPE.
Honesty and respect go a very long way with me, so liars/ghosters need not message me.
I am very selective and look for a true connection/friendship with people, not hook ups. I enjoy attention and give back what I receive. If you are looking for the M-F, 9-5 communication/relationship, I am not the girl for you. Also I have tried online only and it doesn't work for me, so my ideal would be someone who is local for eventual IRL, after a connection has been established. If you live long distance I may consider you, but a clear plan for routine IRL meetings would be needed.
I love to joke around, life is serious enough. So you need to have a healthy sense of humor. I am not a brat but do enjoy poking the bear a little bit at times. So if you can't take it as well as you can dish it out, we will not be a good fit.
I am not a service sub. I don’t enjoy or have a need for rules/tasks.
SMOKERS!
-Polyamory/Married men.
I need to be the priority as I will make you mine. I am searching for my one true fit
-degradation/humiliation
-vomit/urine/scat
-blood/permanent markings/needles
-choking that cut's off my air way (but I do LOVE a hand gripping my throat in dominance and ownership)
-real pain
-nothing illegal/under age
-I will not be shared or loaned out to another dom.
-No blind folding or physical restraints during the first play session.
Update 1/25/24:
If you don’t want/need consistent daily communication for us to get to know each other, then we are not looking for the same thing and we are not a good match.
Updated BDSM test 7/2022
== Results from bdsmtest.org ==
97% Rope bunny
95% Submissive
92% Voyeur
59% Experimentalist
51% Non-monogamist
49% Switch
48% Vanilla
34% Primal (Prey)
27% Slave
23% Brat
22% Dominant
21% Exhibitionist
14% Masochist
10% Pet
4% Rigger
0% Daddy/Mommy
0% Ageplayer
0% Sadist
0% Owner
0% Master/Mistress
0% Boy/Girl
0% Degradee
0% Degrader
0% Brat tamer
0% Primal (Hunter)
Looking for my daddy but he would also need to be my best friend. So a relationship, not only a dynamic. Is he out there? I’m not sure, but I hope so.