GiannaRay

sub female

51

**I DO NOT DO PURELY ONLINE-and never will***

HSV2+
^^^GOOGLE is a wonderful thing 

**NEW-
I know there are doms on here that won’t reach out first. Because of my diagnosis, if someone doesn’t reach out to me, I assume it’s a deal breaker. So if you’re interested in getting to know me, you will have to make the first move. 

-if you are still interested and want to message me, include in the message why you’re interested in someone who’s HSV+. If you don’t I’ll know you haven’t even read my profile (god that is sooooo common) and I will not answer you. 

 

Here to learn more about myself, the lifestyle and make friends with like minded people.

I am learning, exploring and growing to discover my likes and dislikes. In my normal life I am a strong, educated, intelligent, ambitous independent but very caring woman. Sexually I'm drawn to more dominant men, who are comfortable being in the drivers seat mostly. But there is a difference between dominance and pushy. I know I'm not a service sub and am not interested in 24/7 or TPE.

Honesty and respect go a very long way with me, so liars/ghosters need not message me.

I am very selective and look for a true connection/friendship with people, not hook ups. I enjoy attention and give back what I receive. If you are looking for the M-F, 9-5 communication/relationship, I am not the girl for you. Also I have tried online only and it doesn't work for me, so my ideal would be someone who is local for eventual IRL, after a connection has been established. If you live long distance I may consider you, but a clear plan for routine IRL meetings would be needed.  

I love to joke around, life is serious enough. So you need to have a healthy sense of humor. I am not a brat but do enjoy poking the bear a little bit at times. So if you can't take it as well as you can dish it out, we will not be a good fit.

I love being a daddy’s girl but I do not do age play. I'd like to try restraining, edging,  blindfolding, anal, DT, rimming (both), anal play (both), prostate play, light impact and sensation play. LOVE FORCED ORGASM. I’m NOT into 24/7 or TPE.
I am not a service sub. I don’t enjoy or have a need for rules/tasks.

SMOKERS! Polyamory and married men who have an active ongoing relationship with their wife (and just because you’re not having sex with your wife doesn’t mean you don’t still have a relationship with her.) I need to be the priority as I will make you mine. If you have an active married life then I am not the priority. - I am searching for my one true fit, no degradation/humiliation, no vomit/urine/scat, no blood/markings/needles, no choking that cut's off my air way (but I do LOVE a hand gripping my throat in dominance and ownership), no real pain, nothing illegal/under age, I will not be shared or loaned out to another dom. No blind folding or physical restraints during the first play session.

Update 1/25/24:
If you don’t want/need consistent daily communication for us to get to know each other, then we are not looking for the same thing and we are not a good match.

Updated BDSM test 7/2022

== Results from bdsmtest.org ==
97% Rope bunny
95% Submissive
92% Voyeur
59% Experimentalist
51% Non-monogamist
49% Switch
48% Vanilla
34% Primal (Prey)
27% Slave
23% Brat
22% Dominant
21% Exhibitionist
14% Masochist
10% Pet
4% Rigger
0% Daddy/Mommy
0% Ageplayer
0% Sadist
0% Owner
0% Master/Mistress
0% Boy/Girl
0% Degradee
0% Degrader
0% Brat tamer
0% Primal (Hunter)

Looking for my daddy but he would also need to be my best friend. So a relationship, not only a dynamic. Is he out there? I’m not sure, but I hope so.

Feb 24, 2024

Sep 21, 2020