I'm an educated well spoken, well mannered and fit 48 year old man. I have most of my needs met apart from one crucial one... A partner to explore our kinks with. I am financially independent.
You will be, like I am, practical (even sensible), but still imaginative even daring or challenging at the right times.
The mental connection is so important. You've got to like that person, want that person, respect that person, laugh with that person, and be very open with that person. The click, the same wavelength, the same needs and desires, are for me the most important. There has to be that trust there to be open with one another and to learn from, and teach each other.
Having finally answered the inner voices that kept telling me to tie up, spank and own my girlfriends, I'm now getting to grips with with my dominant side. I'm very caring and tolerant of alternative opinions and needs and I have a whole library of naughty scenes in my head, which are constantly adapting to suit the person and place. Looking around I'm probably at the softer end of the bdsm scale. I enjoy role play as well as toys, paddles, collars n cuffs, but silk scarves and soft rope rather than hogties. An erotic mind is essential and we can have an amazing time just going to a restaurant and I don't mean good food....
Liars. Blood, scat, electro stuff, gimp masks, children, animals.
== Results from bdsmtest.org ==
100% Rigger
96% Dominant
80% Brat tamer
76% Exhibitionist
76% Vanilla
72% Voyeur
70% Experimentalist
57% Daddy/Mommy
47% Sadist
37% Rope bunny
36% Degrader
28% Master/Mistress
19% Primal (Hunter)
18% Switch
11% Owner
11% Ageplayer
7% Brat
6% Submissive
1% Non-monogamist
0% Pet
0% Primal (Prey)
0% Slave
0% Masochist
0% Boy/Girl
0% Degradee