Hi, I’m James, 29.
I’m looking for a real D/s relationship where I can properly submit and dedicate myself to a Dominant woman. I’ve realized I do best with clear structure and someone who actually enjoys taking control.
I’m not interested in quick chats or fantasy roleplay.
I want something ongoing where I can show up consistently, obey, and focus on pleasing my Mistress. I’m single, stable, and serious about making this a real lifestyle thing, not just something for the bedroom.
Submission is a big part of who I am. I get real satisfaction from serving, following rules, and being guided.
I’m into body worship (feet, pussy, ass), face sitting, spanking, nipple torture, CBT (I have a low pain tolerance and I’m willing to build up on it), golden showers, pegging and anal play (I always prepare properly and stay clean), spitting, trampling, tease and denial, ruined orgasms, and post orgasm torture.
I’m open to exploring more as long as it’s in a safe, trusting dynamic. I like the feeling of being controlled and used for her pleasure.
Blackmail, scat, blood, knives, needles, and anything that causes permanent damage or marks.
Everything else I’m generally open to trying if it fits the dynamic.
Just updated my profile and ready to connect with the right Domme. Looking for something real and consistent.