POC

dom male

26

Single

I'm a student looking to explore more of this lifestyle in terms of what/who I am --> I'm a 6ft tall slim guy, not overly muscular and not fat either. I can be very candid and blunt, so don't take anything too personally. I have a healthy (some might say unhealthy) dose of paranoia. Since I don’t have premium I can only message those who do so I use the “Love the profile” button as a way to say I liked your profile and also as a way of saying "hi" and reaching out.

YOU DO NOT HAVE MY PERMISSION TO USE ANYTHING IN MY PROFILE FOR RESEARCH.

I have limited online experience in the lifestyle, More in real life but still looking to expand my horizons, learn and grow. I am a Dom/Master and any BDSM dynamic will be restricted to the bedroom or privacy, not to be done in public.

I am currently exploring the lifestyle so as to better learn my likes/dislikes and to grow, hoping someone will help me with that.
My known kinks are:
Bondage
Teasing
Control
Edging
Spanking/Impact play
Sadism
Nipple torture
Orgasm control/denial
Service submission
Good Morning/Goodnight texts
(Discussing peoples' experience within the lifestyle)

These are just to name a few and will be expanded on when we have a D/s dynamic and can explore. I will tie you, tease you, play with you, eat you out and want to hear you beg for release - in the kinky way not the kidnap/stalker way.

If you have any fantasies I'd like to hear about them and maybe we can come to an arrangement so don't be shy and share. A vanilla connection is a must as I only practise BDSM/Kink in private. A desire to explore kinky fantasies and other BDSM areas is also a must. I am open to try a lot of new things and will reserve judgment on what I will/will not do until after I’ve tried something at least once - I ask the same of you. If you want to get into a dynamic with me I will want to please you both sexually and generally. I will want a vanilla relationship as well as a D/s dynamic, if that's a problem for you we can discuss.

Not really interested in online play, not unless it will lead to real life.

Hard limits:
-Anything illegal
-Scat
-Blood
-Needles
-Children
-Age play
-Drugs
-Anything dangerous
-Public play
-Ghosting

Soft limits:
-Anal


Maybe more; I need to explore. I'll discuss with any potential partners. As I said, I am looking to grow and explore this lifestyle.

Dishonesty and being closed minded isn't gonna work, we need to be open and honest for this to work, that way we both will feel safe and be able to truly enjoy the experiences we have. The phrase "No, I don't like that" should be followed with a valid reason, not "I don't think I like it" - how do you know if you've never tried? 

I will respect any limits you have.

Mar 17, 2023

Oct 25, 2020