ruinedandruled

sub female

Single

29. Fresh out of a very long relationship - and finally able to discover myself. Been fantasizing for a long time now. Maybe someone would like to show me what I feel I have been missing out on, I am feeling quite lost without a man to please.

I love to read erotica, go to rock concerts, travel. I love swimming and glamping lol. I workout 3 days a week mostly squats and rows, tanning, nails, hair. No tattoos. Only ear piercings. I'd love to get my nipples done. 5' 6" Blonde. Curvy, not fat. Size 10. I have a full time job, but work remotely atm.

What I am looking for.... I'm looking for conversation, friendships, training, and a future IRL dom (after a substantial online interaction where some trust is built). I'd really like to try CNC. I will try anything once as long as its not listed in my limit section below. Send me a message if it pleases you.

Update: I have been receiving alot of messages, Im not ignoring anyone, promise.

Honestly I have no experience. I did enjoy rough sex, rope play and DP with my last partner but that is as far as he was willing to go.
I enjoy submission outside of the bedroom as well. Tell me what to wear, let me make you dinner and bring you drinks, it really makes me happy to take care of you. Tell me what you want me eating to be my best for you. And if I'm a such a good girl that I'm lucky enough to be taken out for a night, tell me where I'm going to dinner, don't ever ask.

== Results from bdsmtest.org ==
100% Exhibitionist
100% Submissive
100% Slave
100% Masochist
100% Degradee
100% Voyeur
100% Rope bunny
96% Experimentalist
92% Pet
79% Primal (Prey)
63% Boy/Girl
50% Non-monogamist
43% Brat
41% Vanilla
11% Ageplayer
1% Brat tamer
1% Primal (Hunter)
0% Rigger
0% Daddy/Mommy
0% Dominant
0% Degrader
0% Owner
0% Master/Mistress
0% Sadist
0% Switch
Yes these are my actual test results and I answered with 100% honesty.

Still need to discover them. I live by trying everything at least once. I know for sure I wouldn't be into scat or piss play, and obviously anything illegal. Also, no permanent damage to my body.

I just wanted to let you know, if you are over 55, I probably won't answer unless I find your message extremely intriguing. Speaking of intrigue...I am receiving alot of messages. If you are seriously interested in getting to know me better maybe say a little more besides 'Whats up?'. When that is followed by 5 messages of 'Why won't you answer me?", I get really turned off. Just a slice of advice for any potential Sir or Master that I would consider.

Also, some may have received my KIK...I'm busy, and until I declare myself to someone I will not devote every waking second to you. If this is a problem for you, please send your messages to someone less worthy your time. I'm obviously not going to instantly give you my phone number and hop in a video chat. I have a life, you should know that. How can I trust you with my submission if you don't have a grip on reality?

Lastly, I just experienced an exchange where a 'Dom' kept apologizing for 'bothering' me with every message. The subject was IM SORRY.....all I have to say is, wtf?! I'm pretty inexperienced but that is the complete opposite of what I'm looking for. Thank you. Lol.

Dec 31, 2020

Nov 11, 2020