Zahra​{(Owner)}

switch female

I am a 31 year old Switch. Engaged to My baby boy, yes he knows I am here! We hide nothing from each other and yes, we are open(poly)  as well. I am here to make friends and talk to like minded people and to learn soemthings I do not know. I do not claim to know it all though I have been in the lifestyle for over 10 years , there is always room for growth. 

I am not here to find a Sub or babyboy, nor fuck toy! I am very happy with the babyboy I have and have no urge to add another! 

If you wish to chat and get to know each other, makes friends..Great, please message and I will be more then welling to chat. All I ask, is please..Be respectful!

I have many kinks, from blowjobs to breast torture. I am a slight sadomasochism, I like giving pain and getting , but draw the at drawing blood. This lifestyle is not a game to me, I take power exchange seriouily and my role. I have the issue of going slave mindset at time and forgiving to voice my needs and wants, I am still working on that. I am a rope bunny and love Bondage, it gives me a helpess feeling that drives me nuts and helped me work out past issues and get past them.


My first relationship in the life style, was a horror story, I was introduced to it in all the wrong ways. Trained to be a mindless slave that just did as told with no choice at all...(it was not a bdsm relationship,it was hell) once over, I took a step back from everything. But with in that time, I had formed likes and craved it. And just so happy to go on a randon date and Meet a wonderful master, he was amazing and showed me the real life and the pleasure it could bring..I grew with him and soon learned I was switch..we ended on great terms and parted ways. I become to much of a switch for his liking and things were growing with another sub he had...

I again took a step back because I just could not find another like him. Went into normal relationships only to be cheated on, lied to and used! Life was hell, I hated my relationship and was never happy. Nothing felt right even when they were good guys, sex was boring and I ended up weirding them out. So I decided to give in, face it..this life is me and I love it, crave it, need and want it. Not just the sex, the bonds made, the kinks explored. The growth done when you push your limits and just...be yourself with no judgement or someone telling you! "OH MY GOD, what is wrong with you..No, I would never..." 


I have been in a few real life and online relationships since then..omg at the so called Doms out there now and subs. It's hell to weed through and find the real souls out there, and not ones just hunting for a daddy to pay their bills and hole to shove their cock in.  

I meet my prefect sub, happily engaged to him, living together and share a wonder life. He is as open as I am. Both of us poly with big hearts to share. I am a Mommy Domme at heart, so I love to spread the love..guide, teach and help those in need. To push them to be the best person they can be. 

My submissive side has giving up the hope of finding a Dom that matches me! I guess, i'm just to hard to deal with! so Fuck it!

I DO NOT DEAL WITH PISS, SHIT, BLOOD, KIDS OR AMINALS..NOR HUMILATION. 

Humilation is a extrame hard limit for me. Truly abusive relationships will do that to you. (No, that does not me my Dom or Daddy could not call me his dirty whore, that is a different ball game.)

As far as other limits, metal handcuff (Like cop style, not shackles) full face masks, slapping me in the  face! (that is what my ass is for!) 

My rule is...Do not knock it, till you try it!