Since becoming a member of TheCage.co, i have been granted a unique opportunity as a first time mentor, to the wonderful friend of mine, Shellybean.
My role as a first time mentor, must be made clear: I am not a dominant, nor am i a protector. These are separate roles, each clearly defined on their own. My aim is to support my friend Shelly in her goals as a person, and as a submissive. To talk with her about her worries, and her excitement, while also maintaining a grounded view to help her make the best decision she can regarding her choices in the lifestyle. Another responsibility of mine as a mentor, is to encourage her to seek out as many views of the lifestyle as possible - to absorb and learn as much information as she can, so she can enjoy her kinks and fetishes safely, with informed consent. To help her identify potential red flags, and how to address them as they become concerns, before there are consequences. To me, this is the role of a mentor.
Currently a mentor to the ever blossoming Tree of Wonders, Shellybean!