I am 35 years old and love the Lord with all of my heart. I am a little shy sometimes and can be a bit geeky. As 2021 rolled in, I decided to really dive into this world of BDSM so that I could learn more about it and myself. I would like to meet new people and make some friends who share my interests with regard to both BDSM and outside of it. Other interests include board games, video games, traveling, reading, writing, and hiking.
Not really making a strong effort to get into a relationship at the moment; however, should the Lord decide differently, please know that there are three requirements that I absolutely will not compromise on:
1. Jesus needs to be his primary focus in life. He needs to love Christ more than anything else. I would only submit to a man who submitted to God.
2. With regard to kink, he needs to be heavily into bondage.
3. He needs to like cats. Haha
I love being the damsel in distress. The thought of being bound and gagged by a dominant man who wants to keep me for himself is a turn-on. I also enjoy being the damsel who is rescued by a strong, handsome fella. Once in a while, I feel like switching roles and being the dominant one, but most of the time, I am definitely a sub.
Love being gagged. OTM gags are my preference overall. I also fancy struggling against my captor some. It is good fun to be forced into submission and tied up.
As a Christian, I believe that the Dom/sub relationship should be as what is written in Colossians 3:18-19: “Wives, submit yourselves to your husbands, as is fitting in the Lord. Husbands, love your wives and do not be harsh with them.” A woman should be submissive and tend to the man’s needs, and the man should be protective, loving, and gentle in return. I am a firm believer in a partnership where both parties take care of each other. I am interested in the HoH dom/domestic discipline lifestyle.
I will reiterate that I am not looking to rush into anything. I would like to get to know a person quite well before we entertain ourselves with bondage/scenes/role play/whatever else you want to call it :) I also will not engage in any conversation about sexual activity.
== Results from bdsmtest.org ==
97% Vanilla
96% Rope bunny
94% Brat
89% Submissive
78% Switch
66% Primal (Prey)
58% Exhibitionist
29% Voyeur
25% Slave
23% Experimentalist
18% Degradee
16% Masochist
6% Pet
0% Ageplayer
0% Boy/Girl
0% Non-monogamist
Sadism/masochism
Scat/“water sports”
Sodomy
Animals/furries
Children
Being a “little”
Anything illegal
Good day!
I need to make it clear that I am in no way interested in having sex—or even having conversations about such—outside of marriage. I also strongly dislike explicit language. I want to honor my Lord and Savior by treating sex as a sacred gift that should be enjoyed by those committed to each other in marriage and by having my words be “good and helpful” to those who hear them (Ephesians 4:29). :)
8/16/2021
I just recently did some training with a wonderful Dom (tie me up right now). He really helped me figure out my wants and needs. I am humbled and ever so grateful. :)