60+ Aussie guy, I have been into BDSM ever since I tied up my first girlfriend back in the very early 1980's then took photos of her bound with consent on a polaroid camera. I am interested in online contact, that may led to IRL. wishing to find a submissive female or slave.
BDSM has fascinated me for many years, in that time I have been lucky enough to enjoy the company of 9 willing ladies who shared time with me and our common interest's. I do see myself more as a bossy old guy, than a master. It is for the partner to decide who I am.
I fully believe a Master / sub relationship is 100% more intimate than marriage, it needs to be treated and respected that way.
When you have you partner in a BDSM relationship bound and gagged her trust in you is more than that in many marriages.
Limits, I abide by the limits the person I am playing with, and safewords.
Each person is different, one could use a flogger on a lady and leave many marks, but 6 taps of a crop on another could be more than enough.
The limits is judge by the partner you are playing with.
It has been a long time since I have visited here, and age is taking it's toll on me, but I would love to find one last partner who might be interested in fun, maybe even to see parts of Australia in a camper.