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Bendyoutomywill
Massachusetts, United States
Bendyoutomywill
Gender
Male
Relationship status
Single
About me
Actively looking for a genuine submissive female with a submissive mind set. Your style of dress, presence, demure, body type & looks can be whatever you are comfortable with, but I do ask that you must be SUBmisssive and looking to experience sub/DOM, BDSM activities, either as a beginner or experienced sub.
Publicly I am discreet and have a straight appearance. I'm good company and entertaining to be with, confident, demanding, well traveled & perfectly able to hold a conversation on non related matters, the gentleman on your arm in every way, (even better if it is twisted and forced up ur back), a delight to be with, have no problem with escorting 'my girl' to venues, be it out for a quiet drink or wined and dined at home. Do like to be teased, and a little discrete public play would not go amiss. I have respect for my subs and never assume or treat 'like a doormat', take anyone or anything for granted, some would like this, some not. It has been conversed to me by others who I have met, as actually the main thing that worries any potential partner, in an initial meeting, is the mutual respect that must be present, going in with a 'on your knees bitch' attitude just isn't my style, I'm more of an 'Hand full of hair over the knee for a good spanking' type Dom, a good Dom is as hard to find as is a good submissive... First impression is therefore important, but I can assure you I am Safe, Sane and Solvent.
Indoors I can be an extremely convincing Dom (I've been told) I am genuinely and naturally dominant by nature and sexually so too. I've had a healthy interest in the lifestyle since 13 and have had a handful of both mature and younger submissive intimate female friends ever since that age.... all on the side of my regular life, at different times, but on a regular basis.
To me, submission is about the surrender of control as well as experiencing the overwhelming feelings of exposure, vulnerability and accessibility, for the pleasures of a Dom. Yet I do not see submission in a sensual and sexual context only, as I do like the mind games, but I am sexually active so without which, it does not take on the same meaning in my mind.
I like role-play of any form, esp age play, so the young inexperience girls amongst you, please don't be shy, bondage and exposure, hoods and blindfolds, gags, wrist & ankle cuffs. The implements of my 'trade' and tools are many, and all awaiting your appraisal, with rope and chain being the main restraining element. I enjoy 'fetish' dressing in a submissive and her to wear underwear of all forms, stockings, suspenders heels, anything tight and restrictive, foundation garments... have a very bad nylon fetish... which requires feeding please. I have, since a very early age, equated full and total domination of a mutual consenting partner as well as controlled domination of the surrender to the exposure, vulnerability and accessibility of my subjects 'Body' whether for gentle or forced sex, or the insertion of toys,dildo's,vibs beads etc.
In my dominant mind and role, a sub should be full of a desire to surrender and be used, played and fondled with, stretched and opened, and of course anything that comes with it. The need is one of feeling, for the submissive to give these parts of the body, to belong to someone else, even if only for mutual sessions.
I am a strict but caring Master whose experience has been gained over many years, I can accommodate or travel for the right submissive, I travel, due to my work, so if all of this seems like what you would enjoy being part of, please feel free to mail me and I will get back to you in due course. I take pride in what I am... care in what I do, I love to teach and introduce my subs to all manner of kink, stretching limits and educating inquisitive submissive minds, but its always mutually consensual.. remember its easier to ask for forgiveness... than ask for permission..... thanks for reading this, and hope to hear from you soon.
Respectfully
J
I'm also interested in finding some people who share common interests for ordinary fun, activities and the like.
Publicly I am discreet and have a straight appearance. I'm good company and entertaining to be with, confident, demanding, well traveled & perfectly able to hold a conversation on non related matters, the gentleman on your arm in every way, (even better if it is twisted and forced up ur back), a delight to be with, have no problem with escorting 'my girl' to venues, be it out for a quiet drink or wined and dined at home. Do like to be teased, and a little discrete public play would not go amiss. I have respect for my subs and never assume or treat 'like a doormat', take anyone or anything for granted, some would like this, some not. It has been conversed to me by others who I have met, as actually the main thing that worries any potential partner, in an initial meeting, is the mutual respect that must be present, going in with a 'on your knees bitch' attitude just isn't my style, I'm more of an 'Hand full of hair over the knee for a good spanking' type Dom, a good Dom is as hard to find as is a good submissive... First impression is therefore important, but I can assure you I am Safe, Sane and Solvent.
Indoors I can be an extremely convincing Dom (I've been told) I am genuinely and naturally dominant by nature and sexually so too. I've had a healthy interest in the lifestyle since 13 and have had a handful of both mature and younger submissive intimate female friends ever since that age.... all on the side of my regular life, at different times, but on a regular basis.
To me, submission is about the surrender of control as well as experiencing the overwhelming feelings of exposure, vulnerability and accessibility, for the pleasures of a Dom. Yet I do not see submission in a sensual and sexual context only, as I do like the mind games, but I am sexually active so without which, it does not take on the same meaning in my mind.
I like role-play of any form, esp age play, so the young inexperience girls amongst you, please don't be shy, bondage and exposure, hoods and blindfolds, gags, wrist & ankle cuffs. The implements of my 'trade' and tools are many, and all awaiting your appraisal, with rope and chain being the main restraining element. I enjoy 'fetish' dressing in a submissive and her to wear underwear of all forms, stockings, suspenders heels, anything tight and restrictive, foundation garments... have a very bad nylon fetish... which requires feeding please. I have, since a very early age, equated full and total domination of a mutual consenting partner as well as controlled domination of the surrender to the exposure, vulnerability and accessibility of my subjects 'Body' whether for gentle or forced sex, or the insertion of toys,dildo's,vibs beads etc.
In my dominant mind and role, a sub should be full of a desire to surrender and be used, played and fondled with, stretched and opened, and of course anything that comes with it. The need is one of feeling, for the submissive to give these parts of the body, to belong to someone else, even if only for mutual sessions.
I am a strict but caring Master whose experience has been gained over many years, I can accommodate or travel for the right submissive, I travel, due to my work, so if all of this seems like what you would enjoy being part of, please feel free to mail me and I will get back to you in due course. I take pride in what I am... care in what I do, I love to teach and introduce my subs to all manner of kink, stretching limits and educating inquisitive submissive minds, but its always mutually consensual.. remember its easier to ask for forgiveness... than ask for permission..... thanks for reading this, and hope to hear from you soon.
Respectfully
J
I'm also interested in finding some people who share common interests for ordinary fun, activities and the like.
Update date
Jan 24, 2021
Member since
Jan 23, 2021