In a monogamous relationship
50+, ecstatically married, straight, professional. Non-smoker and won't consider someone who does, sorry/not sorry. Occasional drinker, not a fan of drunkenness. Vegetarian, mostly vegan (I'm French, cheese, it's hard!)
I've always enjoyed bondage and some pain play. My wife is very into our trying new things. Pushing boundaries and getting past fears. She likes to see me dominate. She likes to feel scared in a controlled way. She'd like to watch me be with another woman in a sub role.
Time to find that third who will take us all to new places.
== Results from bdsmtest.org == 96% Rigger 92% Dominant 88% Degrader 81% Brat tamer 73% Voyeur 71% Switch 70% Sadist 69% Rope bunny 65% Submissive 63% Experimentalist 63% Masochist 60% Exhibitionist 52% Primal (Hunter) 47% Vanilla 44% Master/Mistress 41% Owner 40% Degradee 35% Non-monogamist 34% Slave 32% Brat 28% Pet 13% Daddy/Mommy 0% Primal (Prey) 0% Boy/Girl 0% Ageplayer
Not at all sure. Not into scat, open-minded to most else.
Desires for her - humiliation, more pain, determined to watch me with someone else - and for me - wanting to control her in and out of the bedroom, enjoying hurting her physically, exploring consensual non-consent, if that makes sense. Rope play. Edge play. Denial. She's currently Locktobered! It's all good.
In real life, enjoying music of many genres, an avid reader, keen on philosophy, psychology and learning in general. A bike rider. A wanna-be guitarist.
Looking to meet someone serious, fun-loving, submissive, wanting to learn with us.