Got ghosted again

Yes, it's happened a couple of time on here. Short exchanges which seem promising and then responses stop. I usually reach out with a 'I won't bother you again if I don't get a reply to this, hope you ...

Fri Nov 29, 2024 3:38 pm • 11 Replies • 531 Views

Water sports yes or no?

I'm also intrigued. I love to do it, to have my sub kneel and welcome my pee on her body. She likes it, to a passive extent, but it doesn't uber-excite her. She does it, for me. She's tried taking it ...

Sun Oct 20, 2024 6:39 pm • 54 Replies • 11435 Views

Emotional Availability

Hi there

I'm finding my professional mode triggered here. As someone working with kids in that context, do you have supervision? By supervision I don't mean someone watching what your are doing, bu ...

Sat Sep 28, 2024 10:34 am • 13 Replies • 1430 Views

BDSM inspired smut - any recommendations?

Check out Manon Mercier-Labelle on Amazon.

Sat Sep 14, 2024 6:00 pm • 6 Replies • 322 Views

What's your dynamic

We found each other first, got married and discovered BDSM, at first quite tame tying-to-the-bed stuff but moving beyond over the years to DD/BG D/s, with punishment, tasks, service. Originally the id ...

Sun Sep 01, 2024 5:40 pm • 22 Replies • 1958 Views

*WELCOME to THE CAGE!* Introduce Yourself Here

I've been lurking here for a while, on and off. Using power exchange purely sexually atm with my wife of 23 years. We are very, very keen to go further and meet others, learn more about this community ...

Sun Jul 14, 2024 6:18 pm • 3173 Replies • 1008310 Views

For the Sadists, I'm curious as to why

Connected to the question I came here to ask. Why do I like it? Why does it turn me on so much to cause pain? And how far would she let me go? And how far do I want to go? I think I'd go further than ...

Tue Oct 03, 2023 8:21 pm • 37 Replies • 7084 Views

*WELCOME to THE CAGE!* Introduce Yourself Here

Hi, I'm Abob. Well, clearly not, but that's my username for now. Mid-50s dom in a long-term marriage. New(ish) to the lifestyle apart from some BDSM play on and off over the years. My partner is wanti ...

Tue Oct 03, 2023 7:37 pm • 3173 Replies • 1008310 Views

Just 4 fun: Sexy word game. Rules: Must be a sexy word.

Need

Tue Feb 09, 2021 3:31 pm • 6668 Replies • 1173391 Views

I'm new to this, in a way

So this has always been something that has crept into my sexual relationships. My marriage of the last 20 years has been very sexual, and seen my partner grow in terms of what she likes and what she'l ...

Mon Feb 08, 2021 3:07 pm • 3173 Replies • 1008310 Views