dom male

New York, New York, United States
Relationship status
About me

Let start with I am not here to play games with people. If your a liar or a fake I don't have time for that. I am not going to string you along and expect you to not  play games with me. I am not nor will not be a sugar daddy. Nor am I interested in a fling. With that being said, welcome to my profile and happy reading.

I do believe in this statement. "My body my choice!" 

Yes sexually I am a dominant.  I like my woman to be submissive durning sex. Not 100% of the time. I do have a number of things that I do perfer that are nothing to crazy. That can be talked about and fine tuned. I like taking control by means of hair pulling and tying up limbs to yourself and furniture. I want to take pleasure in your body and you getting pleasure with mine when the heat finds it way to stoke itself or I stroke you.

I want a woman thats going to give to me just as much as I give to her in all aspects of our relationship.  Not looking for someone that gets what they want and gives nothing back. So if you looking for, Ok pumpkin daddy is going to pay your way. Keep looking. It's our life and we make it happen not just me.

I believe in safe healthy sex. So for me that means no sharing. Of you or me with another.   Absolutely no drugs of any kind. I used to smoke cigarettes, quit for a long time now and perfer you don't too. If you are a smoker not a deal breaker. Just have to shower more. Joking. Drinking is ok, as I drink on occasion.

I believe in men and women roles. Let me stay this. That doesn't mean I believe women are less then men as a person or human being. Just that men are men and women are women.

I am mostly a home body kinda guy. That don't mean I don't go out. I do go out to eat and take walks on nice days and when it's not to cold or hot. I am not an  Exhibitionist to the point your walking around naked, well outside the house atleast. I do however like to go out to eat or to a movie and see how far and how much I can touch you and not bring attention to us.

I am a realist. I know how things should be but understand that's not how things really are.  I joke sometimes way to much in a sexual manner.  I have, well my own morals. I let people be them and dont take advantage. So I ask to let me be me.

I drawing as a hobby and it's a challenge for me to get it right. The drawings above are a few I have done myself. They are I found to be the best I have done.  I listen to books and music while I am working. Which are always busy. As you I have my own quarks and opinions and expectations. We Will Not agree on everything but would like to hear what you have to say, if I like it or not. That being said, conversations has to be a two way street. I hate being fake or someone that is fake to get what they want. I dont like drugs of any type cause I have seen what people become and I dont want that around me.

Born late 1973. So as time goes on so does my age. 6 feet 2 inches that shouldn't change much. Average build and weight 235lbs. Eyes brown hair primarily brown. Funny how my facial hair is salt and pepper andvthe rest is my normal color. For those that like to feel their fingers in their mans hair. I have plenty of it not bold or thin haired. Clarify, not a hairy body. No body piercings. Hmm wait schooled in the late 90's two holes in my left ear, not used anymore. 5 tattoos. What and where? Well that's something to talk about. 

I like a good sci-fi movie or action. Well any movie  really as long as it's good. Have a thing for Anime and Henti types of shows. Guess that's where my style of drawing is trying to go to.

For you with body piercings. I have come to like nipple piercings. Tho I have seen a few with facial piercings I don't get nose, lip and eyebrows. Not a fan of green and or blue hair. This is not a turn on nor is body hair.  Meaning, legs, armpits and sex shaved. 

If there is any questions hit the message button and send it to me. I promise I will not flog you for that. Unless your question is, would or will I.
BDSM and me
I as you will have to learn one thing and that's the most important thing, what it is that makes you pur and makes your knees buckle. I do take it seriously cause as much as it's fun and sexual. It can be harmful done wrong. Nothing worse then giving your all to have been taken advantage of.
I started out as a sub to a woman in my mid 20's and as I experienced I found I was more about wanting control. Had what I thought was my life partner and sub but for her own choices it didnt go there and after 6 years she walked. 
That brings me to today.

I am a bit of a stickler when it comes to communication.  Not only do I have rules for keeping in touch and letting know where you are. For reasons of safety and as my partner/sub my peace of mind. As a simple you and me communication is key to a relationship.

I have been burned in the past so trust is a proven aspect. Not just from you but from me as well. I am not someone that hangs on words until actions are.  If we can't trust each other then I can't see a point.

        So let me tell you something about me rather then an online test.  I like pain. Both given to you and taken from you. Nails, biting, hair pulling and smacks. No faces. Ruff housing trying to grapple or pin the other. It a energy I find animalistic.
        I don't want a brat but a woman with a wild side or feisty that knows when to be submissive and stop fighting. As well as being that woman on her knees looking down waiting for a touch on the shoulder and a command. A little of both worlds. A good and bad girl.
       I have been only a Sir. Not sure how I feel about Master. Been called Daddy once and the thought and the sound of it is nice.
       I am still growing and there are things that I want to learn and growing into. Like Shibari Rope Bondage. Sure I know a hand full of ways to tie someone down and if that fails I have a few other restraints. That's what I want to know. I am not coming in all knowing and never will know it all.
        I have been only a Sir. Not sure how I feel about Master. Been called Daddy once and the thought and the sound of it is nice
        I perfer soft kittens or bunny's so if you want to be petted and brushed and curl up beside me pleading for some attention, all for it. No dogs, to  masculine. They are to um loud and not femininity. So let's stick to who's a pretty kitty.
        Earlier I said I have some rules and also mentioned that as a sub it wouldn't be all the time. The rules are for a mind set. To know that life is always there for us. Once we go over them after maybe fine tuning. I want the thought and the feel to be present just not the need to be. Cause I want us to be us as well.
So let's start with the hard limits. No bodily waste. From or to. No blood cuts or needles. Nothing tight around thoat, for me. No drugs. No drinking before or during playtime. No swapping, my toy is mine. From here we see what's what. Now the fun part. Tho I have a lot I like I will keep it to the most liked. Force/controlled orgasm. Female ejeculation. Bodily spankings. Body controlling devices. As I said before getting to know each other is key. Everyone is different. Limits and tolerance are also.
What's new
Working on making my house the I want it and if I do say so myself it's coming along.

It was 3 years in the making grew out my hair to about 20 inches long and now had it cut to donate it to Locks of love. 

Drawings are done by my own hand. Tho they are not professional or worthy of a gallery show. I do ask not to use them. Thanks

So that's it for now more gets added when I see fit.
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Update date
Wednesday, December 29, 2021
Member since
Sunday, February 14, 2021
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