Coltic

New York, New York, United States
Gender
Male
Age
52
Relationship status
Single
About me
     Let me start with I do not play games with people.
     I am not, nor will not be a sugar daddy. Nor am I interested in a fling.
     I am done with one way people.
     Do not bitch because I didnt give 100% to your 25% effort.
Sorry, I know there is only two genders.
Yes I voted Trump 3 times.
    
     With that being said, welcome to my profile and happy reading.

I have to say I am affectionately flawed. Why? Well thats a bit of a story. One I can talk about but not wanting to type out. Lets say its like a movie. It has death and betrayal. Not saying I don't have emotions, just I do not show affections. I have lost the joys in holidays. Both mine and others birthdays. Which has caused others to cry. Tho I have to say I did tell them all this prior and during Vetting.

I am six foot two inches and about 235 pounds. Eyes brown and hair for now is still brown. Funny how my facial hair is salt and pepper and the rest is my normal color.

I like quite but been told I am loud. I think my volume switch is being used by a four year old. When I am not working. (Yes I have a professional job. A skill I like and been doing a long time.) I rather be inside with the curtains closed so I can be dressed in whatever state I like to be in. I am a home body kinda guy. I just find I am more at peace at home then outside. I do however like to go out to eat or to a movie and see how far I can touch you and not bring attention to us.
     
Yes sexually I like woman to be submissive durning sex. I am not look for a slave or live in sex toy. Tho a healthy and active sex life, with being handsy is a perfered action. That being said we are people and will be treated as one.

     I do perfer a couple of things that are nothing to crazy. Such as long dark hair. It is not a deal breaker just a personal preference. A face thats not pierced or tattooed. I am not a fan of extra holes in a woman's face. Not that those aren't acceptable, just not there. I have come to like nipple piercings. Perfer a ring over bar from a visuable look. I am on the edge about a pierced clit. Not sure if I am for or against that one.
     Not a fan of green and or blue hair. This is not a turn on nor is body hair.  Meaning, legs, armpits and sex shaved. 

If your looking for, "Ok pumpkin daddy is going to pay your way." Keep looking. As I stated before. I am not a Sugar Daddy nor am I looking for a Sugar Momma.

     I believe in safety. So for me that means no, Absolutely no drugs of any kind. That includes Pot. Drinking is ok as long as it is in moderation as I drink on occasion. I do believe that a margin of time before a scene after drinking.

I used to smoke cigarettes, quit for a long time now and perfer you did not too. If you are a smoker, not a deal breaker just not indoors.You will just have to take a shower afterwards. Joking. Well maybe if its really noticeable.

     I believe in men and women. There is no in between or changes. I feel that for the times i have to put this in. Yes a sex chance operation changes your appearance and in your mind. Just not in mine. You do you tho. Thats your right.
    I believe women are not less then man as a person or human being. 
     I lost belief in religion so as long as we can respect the others beliefs great.
     For those that the above offends. This is my belief.

     I drawing as a hobby and what I draw is the female form.  The drawings on my profile are a few I have done myself. I find them to be some of the better ones I have done. 
     I have tried my hand at a few short stories which can be found in my blog and the Erotic Magazine section. If by this time they are still there.
I listen to books while I am driving back and forth to work. Some of my favor authors are Stephen King and Travis Bagwell. I do listen to music but I find that I perfer now a days music without words.

As you do I have my own quarks and opinions and expectations. We will Not agree on everything but would like to hear what you have to say, if I like it or not. I do feel that should be on both sides.

For those that like to run their fingers in their mans hair I have plenty. It's not thin what so ever. To clarify, I do not have a hairy body. No body piercings. Hmm wait schooled in the late 90's so two holes in my left ear, not used anymore. 5 tattoos. What and where? Well that's something to talk about. 

     I like a good sci-fi movie or action. Well any movie really as long as it's good. Have a thing for Anime and Henti types of shows.


   
     If there is any questions send it to me by message.  
BDSM and me
As you I will have to learn one thing and that's the most important thing. What is it that makes your knees buckle. I do take it seriously cause as much as it's fun and sexual it can be harmful.
     I started out as a sub to a woman in my mid 20's.
     Had what I thought was my partner in all aspects but for her own choices it didnt go there and after a number of years she walked. 
     That brings me to today.

     I have been burned in the past so trust is a big aspect. Not just from you but from me as well. I am not someone that hangs on words. That don't mean I will not trust. It just isn't blindly given.

        So let me tell you something about me rather then an online test.  I like pain. Both given to you and taken from you. Nails, biting, hair pulling and smacks. No faces. Ruff housing trying to grapple or pin the other. It a energy I find animalistic.
        I don't want a brat but a woman with a wild side or feisty. That knows when to be that woman on her knees looking down waiting for a touch on the shoulder and or a command. 

       I am still growing and there are things that I want to learn and grow into. Sure I know a hand full of ways to tie someone down and if that fails I have a few other restraints. I am not coming in all knowing and never will know it all.
        I perfer soft kittens or bunny's so if you want to be petted and brushed and curl up beside me pleading for some attention, all for it. No dogs, to masculine. They are to um loud and not feminine to me. So let's stick to who's pretty.
Limits
So let's start with the hard limits. No bodily waste. From or to. No blood cuts or needles. Nothing tight around thoat, for me. No drugs. No drinking before or during playtime. From here we see what's what. Now the fun part. Tho I have a lot I like I will keep it to the most liked. Force/controlled orgasm. Female ejeculation. Bodily spankings. Body controlling devices. As I said before getting to know each other is key. Everyone is different. Limits and tolerance are also.
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