Live in Southern Illinois.
Looking for a monogamous relationship in and out of the bedroom - I don't share. Seemingly vanilla in public but not in private. Honesty and communication are very important to me. I am honest to a fault, and I need a partner that will be the same. No games. I don't believe in chatting and then ghosting. If we get along and have a connection, great. If we talk and the connection isn't there, I will tell you.
If I am going to give myself to you, I want to know exactly how to please you and that I am doing a good job.
I've always been a natural submissive, but I can be a brat.
I'm a single mom and work in a very stressful job. I want to be able to give complete control over to someone I trust completely.
I need a Dom with a firm but caring hand who will appreciate me for all that I will do to please him, but can also punish me if needed.
I am open to chatting, but would like someone semi close to me so we can meet in person. Not looking for a hook-up so please do not waste my time. I'm wanting a mental/emotional AND physical/sexual connection. This won't work if you can't have an actual conversation and be able to switch from vanilla to dirty topics at the drop of a hat :)
I am still relatively new. I want to do more exploring with bondage, impact play, teasing & orgasm control
== Results from bdsmtest.org ==
98% Submissive
77% Brat
72% Rope bunny
68% Vanilla
67% Experimentalist
55% Slave
50% Voyeur
49% Masochist
34% Primal (Prey)
15% Pet
7% Exhibitionist
6% Degradee
0% Ageplayer
0% Boy/Girl
0% Non-monogamist
0% Switch
Nothing illegal, no blood, permanent marking or scat.
Can be discussed later.