Sir'smisty
sub female

South Africa
Relationship status
In a monogamous relationship
About me
Female with she/her pronouns.
40ish.
BDSM and me
BDSM offers me the balance.
It is an expression of my deepest self in a vanilla world where I always push ahead, always walk ahead.
When I'm given time and space to submit, I do so wholeheartedly.

I am an experienced submissive with 12 years experienced, initially online, but later in a long term face-to-face relationship.

I'm not looking for a Dom, or play partner. I'm not going to sneak around or damage my relationship... Because I treasure Him and it.
Happy to make friends though.
Limits
Hard Liimits:
Bigotry
Racism and those who deny the existence of systemic racism
Judgemental people

The BDSM hard limits are closed for public viewing.... But I'll say this: I enjoy blood play.
What's new
Please read here to know why I might be ignoring chat requests or messages or why I respond to messages after a long while.

https://thecage.co/blog/userblog.php?postid=57640&blog_id=127348
Update date
Jul 6, 2021
Member since
May 28, 2021
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