In a monogamous relationship
Female with she/her pronouns.
40ish.
BDSM offers me the balance.
It is an expression of my deepest self in a vanilla world where I always push ahead, always walk ahead.
When I'm given time and space to submit, I do so wholeheartedly.
I am an experienced submissive with 12 years experienced, initially online, but later in a long term face-to-face relationship.
I'm not looking for a Dom, or play partner. I'm not going to sneak around or damage my relationship... Because I treasure Him and it.
Happy to make friends though.
Hard Liimits:
Bigotry
Racism and those who deny the existence of systemic racism
Judgemental people
The BDSM hard limits are closed for public viewing.... But I'll say this: I enjoy blood play.
Please read here to know why I might be ignoring chat requests or messages or why I respond to messages after a long while.
https://thecage.co/blog/userblog.php?postid=57640&blog_id=127348