Worship and Submission

I identify as a submissive, not a slave. In my vanilla world I am boss lady. That's important in reading my answer.

I think that worship is a word used for a specific a mindset rather than for spec ...

Tue Dec 21, 2021 7:49 am • 25 Replies • 11778 Views

Drinking his climax cream

*raises hand*
Oral fixation here.

For me it is an act of submission and of worship.

As with most things in life, what is enjoyable to one is not to another, and I find it fascinating to find th ...

Sun Dec 19, 2021 6:30 am • 68 Replies • 14980 Views

The Worst Mistake a Dominant or Submissive Can Make

Or for either side of the slash: not being able to admit to being wrong.

It was the first time I felt more than just playmate energy towards my Dom... When He messed up, we discussed it and He didn ...

Wed Nov 03, 2021 10:38 pm • 42 Replies • 13756 Views

Men, what you need to know.

One or two aspects not mentioned:

If you suffer from PCOS and/ insulin resistance, losing weight is almost impossible. And once your BMI has hits41, your chances of losing weight through diet and e ...

Tue Nov 02, 2021 10:21 pm • 93 Replies • 25555 Views

Do you ever?

I'm often reminded that my life happens in seasons.
And I miss the previous seasons, or rather elements of that season and sometimes the longing for some of those elements sits very close to the surf ...

Tue Nov 02, 2021 10:04 pm • 6 Replies • 2372 Views

When your Dominant Can't be Strong Right Now?

@Miki
Yes, it has compromised us, but it is worth stepping up to make it possible to save.
Calling 'Red' also sits right in my chest. It feels like the right direction and I plan on doing that.
...

Sun Oct 31, 2021 5:47 pm • 11 Replies • 5115 Views

When your Dominant Can't be Strong Right Now?

Thank You for Your response.

It answered some really vital questions for me.

I realise our communication issues would be a concern. There is a legitimate reason for it.
We regress when there i ...

Sun Oct 31, 2021 9:23 am • 11 Replies • 5115 Views

When your Dominant Can't be Strong Right Now?

I'm in need of some solid advice, please?

(I'm adding a TL;DR at the end for the short question)

Some background:
My Dom and I have been together for almost 3 years. We live approx an hour ap ...

Sun Oct 31, 2021 7:43 am • 11 Replies • 5115 Views

Would you give this all up?

I feel like the old lady of the group when I say I've seen, too many times, people leaving the lifestyle for a relationship with an amazing vanilla person, only for them to return a few years later. ...

Mon Oct 25, 2021 7:27 pm • 34 Replies • 9817 Views

Just 4 Fun: Kinky Halloween Party

I'm bringing the spreader bars...


?Already sounds like a good time!

Mon Oct 25, 2021 7:17 pm • 7 Replies • 2531 Views