HarveyDom
dom male

Premium
Franklin, North Carolina, United States
Age
70
Relationship status
Single
About me

I am hoping to establish a LTR with a Sub, Slave, Middle, or Prey to share a life together. To grow close and discover a dynamic based on love, trust, respect, and a dynamic we agree on.

Must be local or willing to relocate. What I mean by local is two hours max. Asheville, Greenville, SC, Atlanta.  I will engage in a quick hookup, CnC/Abduction or medical exam scenario until a monogamous relationship can be established.

I will apologize now but, I am not attracted to extra curvy females. Note I said "extra" curvy.

Ladies I hope you are all having a good day. I am hoping to meet a woman with intelligence and a bit of attitude that enjoys mental/psychological/physical/sexual gratification. It is my wish to make your eyes roll and help you experience your wildest fantasies. But I must make something very clear. I am a hopeless romantic and if we decide to play together and have the chemistry I hope it becomes more. Until I meet her I am open to short term relationships.

Depending on your desires I will tailor our time together so you are satisfied in every way you can imagine. We can share a Dom/Sub, Primal Predator/Primal Prey, Sadist/Masochists or Daddy/Middle experience where you are stimulated based on your most titillating kinks. It can be as gentle or as rough as your wish.

If you seek a more animistic experience we will engage in Primal Predator/Primal Prey sessions. I was a wrestler in high school and college so if you like it Primal you will be overpowered in many ways resulting in biting, scratching, growling, forced penetrations where you respond by fighting off the attack which will only intensify my aggression.

We may use my dungeon with its mirrors walls equipped with fucking machine, restraining table, gynecological exam station, suspension system and stock. You can be shackled or suspend any position exposing your most sensitive areas to stimulation, penetration and abuse (if that is your thing) all the while you get to watch it about to happen in the mirrors as I approach your helpless body. I have a full selection of toys and tools for pleasure or pain.

Very experienced in CnC/Abduction/Kidnap scenarios. I live in an ideal location for outdoor CNC in the woods, isolated where no one will hear your screams or being held captive in the Dungeon!

In a session your experience we will start slowly sparring intellectually, verbally or physically . If you are a Brat I will tease you with suggestive threats of punishment as you push me more with your bad behavior until that moment arrives and you feel my hands on you. Your punishment will not be quick. It will be long and drawn out with pauses so you have to think, “What is he going to do to me next?” And I will do to you the activities in your kinks list and push you into your “curious about” zones.

If you are a Masochist you will be brought to your limits of pain and it will be drawn out over time. Sessions will have you feeling helpless and totally vulnerable to my sadistic desires. Only a safeword/contract will limit your suffering.

By the end of our time together you may be exhausted so we may retire to the hot tub or bed to relax, unwind and be given aftercare. At that time you will also be treated like the special woman you are. I will want to make you feel special with cuddles, a relaxing massage or drinks. I feel it is my responsibility to show my appreciation for all that you have given and what we have experienced together.

I wish all you ladies much happiness as you pursue your kinks and hope I can be a part of that experience.

##About me:##
I work out and run six days a week so as you can see in my photos I have the body of a much younger man. I am also a runner which means stamina and endurance are not an issue. If anything you may beg for a break :)

I have a BS in Nutrition. Worked as a Registered Dietitian for 10 years before changing careers to Computers/IT. Retired from HP 2012
Divorced (Amicable)
No children
Height 5'6" Weight 155 lbs I have no problem with a woman being taller than me, in fact I like it

My interest include:

Travel-Next trip is to return to Iceland to see the Northern Lights
Music-currently enjoying ZZ Ward, Dua Lipa, Tove Lo, Halsey, Ava Max. I like all genres and shift my listening as the mood strikes me.
Movies- Science Fiction, Fantasies, Action, Love Stories
Books- I enjoyed The Hunger Games, The Divergent Series, The Fourth Turning, The Foundation Series, Make Your Bed

Favorite quotes:

---"I don't believe in magic," the young boy said and the old man smiled, "You will when you see her." - Atticus

---Good boys go to heaven, bad boys bring heaven to you.-From the song Heaven by Julia Michaels

---I'm not the prettiest you've ever seen, But I have my moments, I can get a little drunk, I get into all the don'ts. But on good days, I am charming as fuck-From the song Moments by Tove Lo

---Sticks and stones may break my bones, but chains and whips excite me-From the song S & M by Rihanna
BDSM and me
Fetishes I am into in alphabetical order.


Into: 69 (everything to do with it),
aftercare cuddles (everything to do with it),
age play (everything to do with it),
anal (giving),
anal beads (giving),
anal creampie (giving),
anal fisting (giving),
anal play (giving),
anal sex (giving),
anal training (everything to do with it),
ass play (everything to do with it),
ass worship (everything to do with it),
bare bottom spanking (giving),
bare handed spanking (giving),
bdsm (everything to do with it),
belt spanking (everything to do with it),
biting (everything to do with it),
blindfolds (everything to do with it),
bondage (everything to do with it),
breast whipping (giving),
breast/nipple play (everything to do with it),
breasts (everything to do with it),
breath play (giving),
butt plugs (everything to do with it),
candle wax (giving),
clamps and clips (everything to do with it),
clit spanking (giving),
collar and lead/leash (everything to do with it),
collars (everything to do with it),
consensual nonconsent play (giving),
daddy daughter roleplay (everything to do with it),
daddy/babygirl (giving),
daddy/girl (everything to do with it),
discipline (giving),
doctor/nurse play (everything to do with it),
double penetration (giving),
eating pussy (giving),
face fucking (everything to do with it),
face slapping (giving),
facesitting (receiving),
female ejaculation (everything to do with it),
fingering (everything to do with it),
fisting (giving),
fmf threesomes (everything to do with it),
freckles (everything to do with it),
fucking machines (giving),
glasses (watching others wear),
hair pulling (everything to do with it),
handcuffs (everything to do with it),
holding her just because she's mine (everything to do with it),
intelligence (everything to do with it),
kissing (everything to do with it),
light bondage (everything to do with it),
 nipple clamps (giving),
nipple play (giving),
nipples (everything to do with it),
oral sex (everything to do with it),
pillory (giving),
predator/prey (everything to do with it),
primal (everything to do with it),
pussy spanking (giving),
red heads (everything to do with it),
restraints (everything to do with it),
rimming (everything to do with it),
role play (everything to do with it),
rope (giving), rope bondage (giving),
rope bondage/suspension (everything to do with it),
rope play (giving),
rough sex (giving),
sensual domination (everything to do with it),
spanking (everything to do with it),
squirting (everything to do with it),
stocks (giving), talking dirty (everything to do with it),
teacher/student (everything to do with it),
toys (everything to do with it),
vaginal fisting (giving),
vaginal stretching (giving),
vintage lingerie (watching others wear),
whips (everything to do with it).
Limits
Scat Play
Update date
Sep 22, 2023
Member since
Jun 1, 2021
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