Wow I’m getting old, but still going and not in bad shape for 63. I write poetry, sex has become a fantasy. Just looking through what others have written I realise I don’t even have the language. I don’t know what some of the terms refer to, so bear with me while I discover.
I have to be honest I really don’t know. What I do know is ‘regular’ sex has lost its magic, impact? It’s the emotion and emotions involved in the sexual act that capture me.
Again, I don’t know. I can’t bear extreme pain, and anything that hurts anyone who hasn’t consented is a complete no. So I’m ruling out needles, blood… probably add to that as I find things out.
I’ll write out my thoughts, feelings and fantasies to share