|Richmond, California, United States|
Seeking LOCAL experienced poly dom in the San Francisco bay area to date. Sorry folks, I don't do online play.
Very much into D/s. I prefer positive, nurturing dominance over angry, "you're in trouble/not good enough" type of dominance. It is not a hard and fast rule, but I prefer older male doms. I am not, however, into age play.
I love sensation play, love sexual play, have a moderate pain threshold, enjoy comfortable bondage, and a lot of other stuff. It depends on what I and my partners have in common! Each dynamic is different.
I have been with my Master ( he is Ashigeru on here) for almost 8 years now. He is my beloved, my primary, and my fiance. I don't sneak around on him- anyone who is wanting to date me/play with me would need to be willing to meet him and keep up a bit of communication with him.
Consent is key. Consent is everything. Mutual respect. Strong, good communication. Negotiation is an alive, dynamic, continuous thing.
I've been getting more involved in my local community again! Wicked Grounds is the heart of the San Francisco bay area kink scene, and I can sometimes be found there, sipping tea, reading a book, or drawing. I've started going to Black Thorn, and am once again attendion play parties at Catalyst and Citadel.
Pro tip: if you want to catch someone's interest, first of all, carefully read their profile! (If you got this far, you are already way ahead of the curve, heh!) Write a letter personalized for them. I don't mean "hey" or "hi" or "what's up" and I really don't mean a pervy-ass one-liner that would get you slapped on the street. Write a little introduction! Tell the person you are writing to a little bit about yourself, and maybe why you messaged them. Broach a conversation topic, and contribute meaningfully to the conversation. Effort and thoughtfulness, as well as respect, will get you a hell of a lot farther than sending off 30 "sup"s to random people who happen to be the gender you prefer.
If you want to play with me, and are a local dom, please include "sanguine" in the title of your first message to me, to show that you bothered to read my profile. If you can't even be assed to learn who I am before messaging, you're almost certainly just looking for a quick and easy wank.
PS- I really mean it when I say I am looking for someone L O C A L. Thank you!