KwsatzHaderach

dom male

Nerdy, fit, college instructor looking for someone that I can connect with in and out of the bedroom. Open to something casual but ideally looking for something that can grow into a more serious relationship. Ideal relationship is one that is very kinky in the bedroom and with elements of a D/s dynamic outside the bedroom as well. Some more detail about what I'm looking for in a relationship: What I want is a relationship that incorporates D/s beyond the bedroom but that doesn't dominate (no pun intended) the relationship. I'd like to be with someone whom I share non-kink interests with. I want to be able to talk about and do vanilla things. I don't want to feel like I have to be "on" as a Dom all the time and I don't want my girlfriend to feel like she has to be a sub all the time. At the same time, I do want some aspects of D/s to weave throughout the relationship. Elements of traditional gender roles would be present. I would want to take on a more leading and protective role. There might be elements of domestic discipline. The specifics would obviously be worked out over time and depend on the wants, needs, and chemistry of both people involved but that's the general idea.