In a monogamous relationship
I'm in my forties, married, mother of 2 kids that still live at home (early 20's & autistic). I'm basically a walking contradiction. I'm opinionated but open minded. Love meeting and hanging out with new people, but not a people person over all. I enjoy Disney and romance novels, but also LOTR, Walking Dead, and true crime shows.
Been dabbling around with bondage and impact play for years but interested in delving more deeply into the lifestyle. Guess if I had to put a label on myself I would be a situational switch? I'm not really a true dominant or submissive in my everyday life. In my personal life I am more interested in being submissive, but am not against taking charge on occasion.
No blood, scat, urine, or things like that. Not a feet person at all. Could live with some name calling or possessive statements, but public humiliation, being trashed for being plus sized, or being asked to degrade someone based on their interests or breast/penis size is not something I would ever be into.