PLEASE READ EVERYTHING BEFORE MESSAGING ME:99% OF YOUR QUESTIONS ARE ALREADY ANSWERED HERE: THANK YOU
38 years old and recently separated. Looking to explore and learn more about the community I've always been fascinated by. I know looks aren't everything, but i do actually have to have an attraction to my dom...so please don't bother if you don't have an actual pic of yourself on your profile. I check profiles prior to reading messages sent to me. However, I have to feel attracted to and comfortable with a dom first before the submissive part of me actually comes out. I don't know how to just "turn it on" whenever. I do need conversation and to get to know someone first. So don't automatically come at with wanting to "own" me or immediately start off talking to me like I am already your sub. That won't get a response from me. My submission is earned not just immediately given.
I'm very submissive. I have limited experience though due to lack of finding someone Im both attracted to and they are willing to/know their own strengths. Things i know i like: being choked, tied up, whipped/spanked/caned, electro play, knife play, degredation, toys, candle wax...
And, as you can tell from discription above (if you have read this far), I am a fairly independent, outspoken, and intelligent female that has no problem speaking her mind. That being said, I am not opposed to being a sub 24/7, I just don't know that I am completely capable of it. The idea is intriguing, and possibly something to build towards as we get more comfortable with each other and get to know each other. But please do not expect it right off the bat because I don't even know if I would be able to give up that much of my idependence or my personality.
== Results from bdsmtest.org ==
100% Rope bunny
99% Submissive
98% Masochist
91% Degradee
83% Brat
75% Primal (Prey)
59% Exhibitionist
55% Slave
54% Experimentalist
50% Pet
27% Switch
25% Boy/Girl
17% Vanilla
15% Voyeur
12% Non-monogamist
10% Ageplayer
http://bdsmtest.org/r/ny8dWxxJ
Still learning and taking things a bit slow on figuring out what exactly my likes/dislikes and my limits on how far i can hanlde it. Things I know I don't like: scat(just eww), tickling(not responsible for injuries should you attempt to tickle me, this will get me out of subspace faster than anything).