HurtSoGood

Female

Single

I Am: Empathetic  Perceptive  Stalwart

Likes:
• The quiet still moment at the end of the day when everyone and everything has shut down.
• Random encounters that turn out to be some of the most purely genuine moments you ever experience.
• Sunsets and sunrises.
• The sound of waves crashing.
• The feel of a steady breeze caressing my skin.
• That moment before a storm hits when the clouds are building and everything becomes still and then boom! The sky opens up and releases everything.
• Going on walks during thunderstorms.
• The peace and satisfaction of a job well done. Something you worked so hard for that finally comes to completion.
• Learning.

Dislikes:
• Willful ignorance-staying stupid for the sake of being stupid.
• Arrogance-not to be confused with confidence.
• The sounds of someone chewing with their mouth open, silverware scraping on a plate, and the squeak of dry erase markers writing.
• Stagnation- inability to grow and evolve.
• When someone invades my personal space, including my person, without my permission.
• Dumbassery when driving-not everyone deserves a license.
• Cruelty
• Abuse of power-how a person treats others that they perceive to be in a position of inferiority speaks volumes about them as a human.

I enjoy cooking and trying new cuisine. I love to expand my horizons. My favorite dishes to cook would be stir frys and pastas.

I am passionate about beauty- in nature, people, objects. I try and try to capture what I see that stirs my spirit in photos so I don't forget. I love attempting to get just the right angle to convey what it is I'm seeing and feeling in that moment.

Words feed my soul. Writing has always been a form of catharsis for me. I write a lot of poetry. I love trying to make things fit just so to get what I'm trying to say to flow. I also just write bits and bobs as a way of coping and getting out thoughts and feelings that are troubling me.

I also enjoy camping and hiking. I like going on roadtrips and immersing myself in nature where I feel most at peace.

I listen to a plethora of music. My playlists are ever-growing and ever-evolving. Rock and oldies are my foundation though. I love listening to meditation music and film scores. Celtic music feeds my soul. Elvis is life. I enjoy some pop, reggae, classical, jazz, blues, dubstep, drum and bass, etc. You name it and I'm sure I can find something I enjoy. 

I love love love film and literature. My film and book tastes are as eclectic as my music tastes. Lord of the Rings will forever be my Bible in both film and novel format. I love to immerse myself in the entire experience of the story being told. I do my best not to try to figure out the plot lines. Rather, I prefer to buckle up for the ride and see where the artist is taking me. I've been reading since I was 2 and literature will forever and always be my escape. The cliché, "I have lived a thousand lives" is completely relevant.  Literature, film and music were always my escapes when reality was too much. But it started with a book.

I do not consider myself a religious person. I do not ascribe to anything in particular. I spent time delving into various religions and spiritual practices, picked what resonated with me and pieced together something that makes sense to me. I respect each person's autonomy to practice their beliefs as they see fit insomuch as they are not causing harm to others. I do not believe there is any one true religion and that all others all false. What is right for one may not be right for another and we should all respect that.

I live in rural GA. I enjoy the setting and do not like city life. I like not being constantly bombarded by people and things as I try to go about my life.

My biggest dream has always been to travel the world and immerse myself in different cultures. I have not given up on that dream, merely postponed it. Altho, I would settle for a visit to Ireland.

One key thing that is intrinsic to who I am is that I am a survivor and a fighter. I have no back down and no give in when the shit hits the fan. I might get knocked down, knocked out and even broken for awhile. But I never stay that way. I do not quit. I will always keep coming.

I consider myself pretty open. Any questions, just ask.

I am here to explore and learn and express myself. I have no plans of jumping into anything with anyone. Don't message me telling me what I need to do or because you just want help blowing a load. I just want to chat with people and let things flow as they will.

Jan 22, 2023

Oct 25, 2021