I’m a straight male in my upper 20’s living in NYC. I am well educated and am in good shape/health, and while I don’t care about pedigree or whether my partner works out everyday, I am looking for someone who is thoughtful and takes care of themselves. I have been successful and work in a highly competitive industry which requires a lot of my time and attention, but I am good at balancing time for those I care for. I am looking for a real, in-person relationship with the chemistry and potential to bloom.
I like to be in control and am looking for someone who likes to be controlled (but not too much ?). I have a natural paternalistic instinct, I’m a protector and provider, and would prefer someone with little experience so we we have room to grow and explore in this space. It turns me on to know an intelligent woman is willing to secede her autonomy to me, whether because it excites her or because she cares (or both). I have a high libido, even for a guy, but am not really looking for a relationship that is 24/7 kink or master/slave, but am rather looking for a partner with a submissive tendency. If I dressed you up and took you to a nice restaurant in the city, then asked you to hand me your panties before the first course, what would you do?
Anything illegal, non-consensual or gross.