I've been involved in the lifestyle for over 20 years. I found the Story of O when I was in college and it spoke to me on a level that no other work of erotic fiction had before or since. But I was lost. The internet was in its infancy and through various online forums and local friends, our small group of fetishists became close friends and learned from each other. I was fortunate to train under an experienced Domme and learned the fundamentals of being both submissive and Dominant. At the time, I was trying to "find myself" and discover how I fit in the jigsaw puzzle of the scene (although honestly, I'm still trying to figure that out).
I've had experience with a couple of online and real-time submissives over the years. Anyone who's been through the heartbreak of losing a submissive or a Dominant when a relationship ends knows the pain that one feels. I'm finally at a point from my last relationship that I would consider starting to look again.
I love erotic art; both imagery and the written word. Fetishware, especially latex is my kryptonite.
I enjoy writing erotic fiction. No, I have not published anything. I have various works in various states of completion. I tend to write short stories, but have been searching for the best outlet to host them. I've tried literotica.com, Tumblr, and others, but never have been satisfied with any of those platforms and eventually the cyberbullying and kink shaming turn me off. I heard about the community here and thought I would explore it further.
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