I'm a Dom who was born '62, (simple math tell you my age) who is in an incredibly loving, wonderfully sexual and permanent relationship with a beautiful lady who, by pure fluke, turns out to be mostly sub.. with an annoying splash of brat.
I've been a facilitator for several friends / playmates over the years, helping arrange such fantasies as 'rape', knife play, gang bangs, 3somes, and some other stuff I don't even know how to lable
Whilst I may not have been involved in the "lifestyle" (??I have a life, BDsM doesn't control or define it, but merely fits into it. Plus I am strong enough to create my own style, not follow predefined ones.) for very long I have been fortunate to have had many playmates who have enjoyed things that in hindsight were definitely sub to my Dom and have had several encounters, both itrw and online, with people who have been quietly submissive until meeting me and asking that I do things to them that were out of our ordinary but which I found intoxicating.
I know them when I come across them, and often find that a hard limit can bend once introduced to it slowly, thus it would depend on what it is. Puke, nappies, blood are definite fixed hard limits though
an interest in rope play
uglyoldmanc
== Results from bdsmtest.org ==
100% Sadist
100% Rigger
100% Degrader
98% Voyeur
98% Dominant
92% Owner
91% Master/Mistress
80% Experimentalist
64% Brat tamer
62% Non-monogamist
49% Primal (Hunter)
26% Exhibitionist
22% Vanilla
13% Daddy/Mommy
6% Rope bunny
5% Submissive
0% Masochist
0% Brat
0% Pet
0% Primal (Prey)
0% Boy/Girl
0% Degradee
0% Slave
0% Switch
0% Ageplayer
http://bdsmtest.org/r/g4KJCZke
I didn't agree with 100% Sadist at first, namely because IF I let you into my world, it's because I care about YOU, and will protect you where I can, but then I thought about it long n hard.. n realised that I'd still slap you, tie you, degrade and abuse you, but only IF you allow that to happen, and whether I like it or not, I am a sadist, I'm just a caring sadist who is only sadistic to people that I allow to be close to me.
I fully agree with 0% Switch.
64% Brat tamer seems low, lol
IF you need me, I'll be in the locker taking care of my rope. no inuendo needed!