I am primarially interested in sadism. I am inexperianced and only want to enter relationships with people who are interested in a long term exclusive relationship. I would be happy as both a sub and a dom so long as I also have romantic feelings for my partner. I care about safety and would be most open to having kinky friends, even if I'm not doing anything sexually with them. I'll only date people who live in my country locally and don't want sex on the first date.
I consider BDSM to be a relationship requirement. I COULD have sex without it, but it is my great preference to have kink, particularly pain in my relationship.
All day bondage that restricts arms and legs, suspension bondage, more than a few drops of blood, scat, 'convincing' feminization (if you pass, you fail), public, multiple partners (I MIGHT be open to co-domming a sub), baby play, breath play, hard beatings, STDs.