40 year old male. Married and now in an open marriage. Now that I am looking for sex and connection outside my marriage, I am pursuing my options and what is out there.
Interested and open. I have never done anything really other than prostrate play. Looking into being a sub, and hope to build self esteem, explore my interests and find new ones.
I am not looking to get hurt, bleed, play with scat, play with animals or kids, be shamed in public ( or overly shamed), feel as if I can't breathe, be involved with the BDSM community in a non discreet public way, or anything illegal. I am open to pushing my limits, but the partner and trust are key and a must. Be gentle, I'm new....
I have had limited sexual partners and all have been relationships of 3 + years. My wife has come to learn she is probably lesbian so we are in an open marriage with no intimacy, now I am seeking intimacy outside of marriage and that isn't something I have ever been interested in.