blessedswitch
switch male

Tampa, Florida, United States
Voice
Relationship status
Single
About me
I’m a 55 year-old man I’m a father of 3, 2 in college 1 almost done with high school. I work long shifts and Own a corporation so it makes my time very precious and valued. I’m extremely dedicated to my family they come first in my life. My company comes next but my needs and desires are huge. I really enjoy living this lifestyle but I can only do it when time permits. I also need to be stealthy with my identity for work and corporate purposes. I am a switch so I love power exchange I am very alpha in my role in my real life. My main desire, I love to satisfy women over and over again whether this would be just a massage, passionate intimacy, impact play, bondage, or whatever you’re into I’ll go more into that shortly. Let’s find out if we can have a mutually beneficial meeting or something casual or a relationship. I am up for whatever we agree upon to meet our needs so once, every now and then or regularly. I’m successful in my life all I want is to mutually enjoy each other have fun with you and then have amazing after care.
Personally I really love animals.  I want to be kind to other people I want to find a way to take and make this world a better place. My job can be exhausting the escape of our time together can exceed our needs. My work requires me to be in control of many things along with my corporation. But, I really don’t want to talk to you about work or what I do for a living. I want to talk about you your needs and your desires. I cannot wait to share with you my passion for this lifestyle. 

So giving up control rocks for me every now and then. But, I can always take control of a situation with us as long as we have trust and communication that is all we need. The company I own allows me to be pretty free with the rest of my time but there are limits because my children do come first. With two in college and one teenager they do get my time first. I’m close to being what I’ve heard called a empty Nester. I’ve always had sole custody of all my children. So they depend on me for a a lot. Which I love we watch series together,  read books together, go on trips together, exercise, hike and more. One of main reasons I say I’m the luckiest man in the world. We cannot wait for the world to open back up completely. I am trying to raise young adults who contribute in a positive way but, are strong and independent.  
If this interests you we will find a way to meet and really enjoy each other. When we feel safe with one another. 
BDSM and me
I was introduced to this lifestyle by an ex-girlfriend. when I realized how much it turned her on and then how much it pulled me in I was completely in. I realized at that point it was much more than an interest or a curiosity. But it was actually A need and a desire I totally crave satisfying women over and over again whether it just be a simple massage, impact play or something we decide together to spice up our lives I’m into it. It could be a once we enjoy each other and that’s it. Or, it could be a regular thing or hey let’s just take and chalk this up to an amazing experience as we both gain knowledge in our growth in this lifestyle.
I always like to use the line from Lucifer what do you desire? I was born up north but I’ve grown up in Florida. I’m college educated I’m intelligent. I love anything to do with the water along with hiking here or in the mountains and more. I really like to read books to expand my knowledge and learning about other cultures, history, fantasy, sci fi, things places and just for entertainment. I have a farm that I love to work on. But lately my work and my business have kept me from that. I’m hoping to spend more time there. Let’s meet up have a few drinks and talk. By the way I’m a non-smoker I’m hoping you are the same. I only drink socially so I don’t drink a lot. I’m hoping to get back into exercise as well.
Limits
I’ve learned not to judge others kinks. But I must say I personally like nothing to do with scat, pee blood needles or other men. That’s a hard limit for me I am totally straight I desire women. Also nothing with children or animals that has to just common sense. If you can ever help to end trafficking of children you must! I can help put you in touch with the right people. They need us for their safety it takes a village. 

I live to satisfy women over and over again your bodies are magical and amazing and you should be put on a pedestal. So however I have to expand my limits to satisfy you we can discuss that.  If I can be a distraction for even a little while in this crazy world it will make my day.
What's new
I’ve been experimenting with role-play, Rope play, learning more about Massage . Just graduated from a course in Tantric lovemaking, breathing and communication. Sorry for the vague picture but, my picture is in my company profile. And, I used to work in fields that require you to be pretty vanilla. There were a couple pictures of somebody that I used to see. I have now taken them down and I probably should’ve done that sooner. This profile is transferred over from my old one which I’ve had on here for many years my previous profile was Theswitch. By the way I cannot wait To experience all of your numminess this is why I’m a switch to share in either pain, pleasure, reward, control, aftercare and more Within our limits.  I’ve been disease free for all my life and expect you to be as well and both of us to stay that way. We will get to that later. It is time to be more picky, careful and really enjoy every moment we have together. I will not try to take and force any spiritual, religious dogma or political mindset on you. Because that is not what we’re here for. We are here to enjoy each other so let’s do this. Or, as I hear all the time let’s go! By the way I’m single. I have no drama trauma in my life In anyway whatsoever. Sold the farm not enough time to maintain properly only so many hours in the day. So I mainly reside in Tampa now sometimes in south Florida for work. 
Member since
April 2022
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